PoppyPainting
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dd is 10 weeks old now and imho a really easy baby. She only wakes once in the night, and colic hasn't been too much of a problem just a half hour issue most evenings.
This week dh took a weeks leave hoping to bond with her as her cry times are when he is home normally, ie lunch time and early eve. However she has taken to crying when she's with him, and stopping when I take her back from him. I watch him with her and I can see why she is behaving as she is as he's so tense with her. I've tried getting him to try the techniques with her that I use, ie listening to the kettle if she's having a hissy fit, different ways to burp her etc, but he's got in a rhythm of being stiff and panicky with her.
So last night he tells me he feels trapped and is the most unhappy he's ever been in his life.....
This week dh took a weeks leave hoping to bond with her as her cry times are when he is home normally, ie lunch time and early eve. However she has taken to crying when she's with him, and stopping when I take her back from him. I watch him with her and I can see why she is behaving as she is as he's so tense with her. I've tried getting him to try the techniques with her that I use, ie listening to the kettle if she's having a hissy fit, different ways to burp her etc, but he's got in a rhythm of being stiff and panicky with her.
So last night he tells me he feels trapped and is the most unhappy he's ever been in his life.....