DH works away- confused about cycles!! Frustrated :-(

[Lirpa11]

Ok so DH works 2 weeks away from home and 1 week at home. TTC around his schedule is so annoying!!!

Now I am afraid I have my cycles wrong too! I though cd 1 was full AF. I usually spot 3-4 days prior to AF and then full AF for a few days followed by spotting.. The spotting is a bit heavier than spotting I guess but def not full AF. So I though o date would be mid this week, but I think I o late last week. My salvia microscope showed ferning pattern last week which means o is within 2 days. Now the microscope has nothing. But then that means I have my cycles wrong??

Is temping worth it? Anyone have DH who works away and is rarely home when you need his little men?

 

[ToughhGal]

I am sorry about your cycles and DH! My OH doesnt work away but works a lot! Our schedules are the pits. When he is too tired or gets sick he cant let the little soldiers out. But I would say do not stress. And if you feel temping will benefit you then do it! I feel anything is worth our future beans. I personally have fertility issues I believe and me and OH have discussed adoption. We are giving it three more months to concieve then preceding into that next step.