So I've been spotting on and off for the last three weeks or so. Well it seemed to stopped for a while and with hormones racing I figured it was safe to have sex. Well now I'm spotting again and I think somehow I hurt my baby from it. I have a scan Thursday and I'm terrified we won't see the fetus or heart beat. The spotting is the same tan colored discharge that I've been having, no bright red but now I'm cramping.