i've been everyday, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day with my fiance every since my period ended. now i still have 3 days til ovulation so i'm wondering did i mess up my chances? i just read that everyday decreases ur chances because it decreases his count. ugh help! but also i just read that everyday up until 2 1/2 to 3 days before O increases ur chances of conceiving a girl... soooo did i screw it all up or is there still a big chance, and even a chance of it being a girl?