Hi I'm posting this on behalf of my girlfriend who insists she wasn't pregnant throughout this whole process. Sorry for the wall of text:
My girlfriend and I had sex a four weeks ago, unfortunately we made the mistake of using an older condom which broke, but we didn't realize until the deed was already done. She has a huge fear of plan B and insisted she probably wouldn't get pregnant so she didn't allow us to take any course of immediate action.
About 10 days later her period was due but she missed it and we started to worry. A few days after this she took a pregnancy test and it came up negative, she tried again a few days after that and it still came up negative. Despite the negative test her breasts started to get larger and fuller, she was experiencing extreme soreness in them and was having relatively bad morning sickness and aversion to some foods. After about 10 days after her missed period she started to have some clear discharge with very painful cramps for a few hours. She said the best way to describe the pain was about the size of a fist. This discharge turned into some brown spotting which very quickly turned into heavy red bleeding on the same day so she assumed the whole thing was just a late period.
She bled like a normal period(in some cases heavier) for about 3 and a half days with intense cramps for the first two, on the fourth day it became lighter bleeding, the fifth day it stopped completely for a few hours but then picked back up to light bleeding(she insists it was far too heavy to be spotting) for the rest of the fifth and six days. The six day ended in spotting. She said normally her period lasts about a day or two longer than that.
It's been almost a week since then, her breast soreness has vanished completely and they're not nearly as full as before, her cramps are gone, her food aversion is gone, and she's had bloating and morning sickness only one day(today) since then. I want her to go get checked out and planned parenthood but she insists she's fine. I'm afraid that if she did have a miscarriage there still could be something there and it could lead to infection or worse. If she did have a miscarriage how long would it take for her pregnancy symptoms to completely go away?
Her health wasn't the best, she never committed to eating healthy and at this point is now slightly underweight, she's a heavy smoker and spends a lot of time on her feet at work and works around heavy duty cleaning chemicals.
So what's the situation? I really want her to go to a doctor but until I get her to do so any help would be greatly appreciated.
My girlfriend and I had sex a four weeks ago, unfortunately we made the mistake of using an older condom which broke, but we didn't realize until the deed was already done. She has a huge fear of plan B and insisted she probably wouldn't get pregnant so she didn't allow us to take any course of immediate action.
About 10 days later her period was due but she missed it and we started to worry. A few days after this she took a pregnancy test and it came up negative, she tried again a few days after that and it still came up negative. Despite the negative test her breasts started to get larger and fuller, she was experiencing extreme soreness in them and was having relatively bad morning sickness and aversion to some foods. After about 10 days after her missed period she started to have some clear discharge with very painful cramps for a few hours. She said the best way to describe the pain was about the size of a fist. This discharge turned into some brown spotting which very quickly turned into heavy red bleeding on the same day so she assumed the whole thing was just a late period.
She bled like a normal period(in some cases heavier) for about 3 and a half days with intense cramps for the first two, on the fourth day it became lighter bleeding, the fifth day it stopped completely for a few hours but then picked back up to light bleeding(she insists it was far too heavy to be spotting) for the rest of the fifth and six days. The six day ended in spotting. She said normally her period lasts about a day or two longer than that.
It's been almost a week since then, her breast soreness has vanished completely and they're not nearly as full as before, her cramps are gone, her food aversion is gone, and she's had bloating and morning sickness only one day(today) since then. I want her to go get checked out and planned parenthood but she insists she's fine. I'm afraid that if she did have a miscarriage there still could be something there and it could lead to infection or worse. If she did have a miscarriage how long would it take for her pregnancy symptoms to completely go away?
Her health wasn't the best, she never committed to eating healthy and at this point is now slightly underweight, she's a heavy smoker and spends a lot of time on her feet at work and works around heavy duty cleaning chemicals.
So what's the situation? I really want her to go to a doctor but until I get her to do so any help would be greatly appreciated.