Didn't have time to test

[Mervs Mum]

Bless yer missus. I got these ones:

https://www.babyandbump.com/attachm...p-pregnancy-ovulation-test-kits-howtotest.jpg

1 down 24 to go....

How long have you been TTC??

 

[HAYS]

same as my ones.

We are on our 5th month,so fecking frustrating,it controls my whole life, every months the same!

 

[*babydust*]

i have the same ones too..another 20 arrived in the post today..
TEST,TEST,TEST!

 

[Mervs Mum]

When I was TTC Emily we BD'd everyday for 3 months! I was only 20 and my then husband was 25 so we had more energy! I didnt think about cycles and ovulation or anything like that and one day I was pregnant.
Now I'm 33 its toooootally different.....it's all I seem to think of. I worry that times ticking by and that ticking is only drowned out by the ticking of my own clock!!
Thank goodness I'm not on my own.....

 

[HAYS]

ofcourse your not,thats why this forum is a god send!! my other half just ignores me now,haha he thinks ive lost the plot!!!

 

[Mervs Mum]

my other half just ignores me now,haha he thinks ive lost the plot!!!

Mmmmmmm.....mine knows I lost it ages ago - 'high maintenance' is how he describes me.....and I dont think he's just talking shoes and handbags....

 

[HAYS]

haha you've gota keep them on their toes!!!

Are you msn hun?

 

[Snowball]

I really hope you both get your bfps this month! Try not to feel too down about early bfn's, in my last pregnancy I got 2 bfn's 3 days after AF was due and then got a bfp a couple of days after that.

 

[diva4180]

good luck ladies, got a BFN this morning myself so I'm feeling crappy and discouraged as well. I'm due tomorrow but I'm not going to test if I don't start but knowing my luck I probably will.

Come on BFP's!!

 

[Mervs Mum]

haha you've gota keep them on their toes!!!

Are you msn hun?

I've PMd you x

 

[loopylew]

aww good luck ladies, got everything crossed for you both, bfp's are slow in coming this month, hopefully your both in the running

 

[Carolina]

good luck hays really hope you get your bfp!! Youve been trying as long as me so i know how you feel!

 

[Suz]

There is still time hun! Hope this is your month!

 

[avistar]

lots of luck for the next time you both test! BFP thought!!

 

[HAYS]

tested again BFN!
boo hoo!

 

[jo27]

Aww sorry hun, try holding off testing for a few days (easier said than done i know!!!!) knowing you, you probably won't be able to resist

 

[HAYS]

i just no iv got my hopes up again!getting alittle fed up of the ttc lark,just so frustrating

 

[Snowball]

Oh Hays

Our first took 8 months to concieve. I know how frustrating it is. Hang in there and I'm sure you'll get your bfp in no time.

 

[HAYS]

GRRR im on a real low, ttc is proving to be making a much bigger effect on me than i realised!

every month is a let down, i just dont see a light at the end of it!
why is it taking me so long!!!!why oh why!

 

[jo27]

Aww don't feel let down hun how long have you actively been ttc now? I found this info:

Normally fertile couples have a 25 percent chance of getting pregnant each cycle, and a cumulative pregnancy rate of 75 to 85 percent over the course of one year. Still, some healthy couples can take even longer to get pregnant.

You've just got to stick with it, maybe try not testing each month. I now only test when i am late so i don't get my hopes up and get disappointed everytime i see a bfn. xx