jen1604
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I wasn't sure where to post this so I thought I'd post in here
Ok so,I was wondering if any of you have advice about this.
Myself and OH are having a disagreement about the way that Ophelia (who will be 2) should be disciplined.Apparently my methods are 'hippy',I'm very into positive reinforcement,she hardly ever gets told no,instead I prefer to explain what she should be doing and I would definitely never smack her.
OH is very 'old school' I guess with his discipline and disciplines in the way that all of his family do.Lots of 'NO' with no explanation,stern voices and shouting and has been known to smack her.I HATE this,it upsets me,I don't think its the right way to do things and not how I want my little girl to be brought up,I would never want her to be scared of either of her parents and seeing her look scared if he raises his voice I try and explain 'She doesn't get what you're telling her off for' but he insists its me doing wrong and I'm too soft.
I am a SAHM and so it used to be just me and the babies at home and so it was a lot more manageable to do the things I felt they should be done but at the moment OH is here all the time too and its starting to feel like a constant battle...
Any one got any ideas or had similar issues with their OH?
xxxxx
Ok so,I was wondering if any of you have advice about this.
Myself and OH are having a disagreement about the way that Ophelia (who will be 2) should be disciplined.Apparently my methods are 'hippy',I'm very into positive reinforcement,she hardly ever gets told no,instead I prefer to explain what she should be doing and I would definitely never smack her.
OH is very 'old school' I guess with his discipline and disciplines in the way that all of his family do.Lots of 'NO' with no explanation,stern voices and shouting and has been known to smack her.I HATE this,it upsets me,I don't think its the right way to do things and not how I want my little girl to be brought up,I would never want her to be scared of either of her parents and seeing her look scared if he raises his voice I try and explain 'She doesn't get what you're telling her off for' but he insists its me doing wrong and I'm too soft.
I am a SAHM and so it used to be just me and the babies at home and so it was a lot more manageable to do the things I felt they should be done but at the moment OH is here all the time too and its starting to feel like a constant battle...
Any one got any ideas or had similar issues with their OH?
xxxxx