Round you go into user cp on the left-hand side under networking theres group membership if you click on that it will take you to another screen for groups you can join if you tick the box by the girls sancturary group then click join it asks you to say why you've requested access fill that in and click request.
Mel sorry to hear about the sinisutis hope you get some releif soon.

Amanda is delilah sleeping better? Hope you've been getting more sleep. I dont know what Id do without the internet.
V sorry about Auroua reaction it sounds like she was just worried about you Im sure she'll be really exicted about the new baby soon. That would be great of you could stay at home. I feel really lucky that Ive been able to although financially it has been really tough.
Sparkly thats great news so happy for you.
Afm: Ive had a horrid day all started this morning with the most horrendous pain they only way I describe it is it felt like someone was sliceing my lower abdomin open. I ended up collapsed on the floor in a ball thankfully steve hadnt left for work so he called them to say he would be late in and stayed with me. He got Benjamin fed, dressed, played with him, made me have a warm drink and eat and just looked after me. I was so scared I honestly thought the next thing to happen was Id start lossing the baby the pain eased and no bleeding but it was horrid. Just as I was starting to relax and feel positive.
Apart from being tired and aching I feel ok. I did speak to me mum and she wondered whether it was to do with the fact I had a csection with Benjamin. i guess it could be scar tissue as everythings stectching to make room for the baby its bound to have an inpact. I really hope its that and that I never experiece that pain again. Hoping my little one is alright.