daddiesgift
Mom of Two
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I can't say I've ever hurt someone because I care! That sounds like an excuse to allow bad behavior. I think telling your daughter to have an abortion is not caring. Does she think that having an abortion will be something you can schedule and just walk away from? No you'd feel horribly guilty for life. Especially having bi polar disorder, living with unnecessary guilt is an everyday occurrence you don't need to have more piled on! I think the comments are selfish and mean. There is no care behind it.
This would be caring.. "Pregnant again? Congratulations! How have you been feeling? How are you coping being pregnant with two kids? If you ever need help I'm here to help. If you ever feel overwhelmed or down call me to talk. Is there a medication to take safe for pregnancy? Do you have a plan for after baby arrives?" THAT'S CARING. "You need an abortion. Ill be disappointed if you don't. I'm not telling dad. Your family is fine with two don't add a third" is not caring its selfish and horrible. We all have different ways of coping and expressing our feelings but suggesting an abortion is not okay. Period!
If you allow someone to continuously hurt you without speaking up it won't get better. If your feeling too delicate I'd have your aunt give her an earful!
This would be caring.. "Pregnant again? Congratulations! How have you been feeling? How are you coping being pregnant with two kids? If you ever need help I'm here to help. If you ever feel overwhelmed or down call me to talk. Is there a medication to take safe for pregnancy? Do you have a plan for after baby arrives?" THAT'S CARING. "You need an abortion. Ill be disappointed if you don't. I'm not telling dad. Your family is fine with two don't add a third" is not caring its selfish and horrible. We all have different ways of coping and expressing our feelings but suggesting an abortion is not okay. Period!
If you allow someone to continuously hurt you without speaking up it won't get better. If your feeling too delicate I'd have your aunt give her an earful!