I married my DH nearly 3 months ago, and since then I have had nothing but "when are you going to start trying?" It's especially annoying because we are trying, but I really don't want a load of busy bodys poking their nose into my sex life. Several times i have been tempted to turn around and tell people the truth and that "Actually I miscarried, does that answer your question?" I have vowed that the next time I am asked I am going to say that I was not born with lady parts and therefore can't. That might shut people up. Has anyone else found that other people seem to care too much about what's going on the bedroom department?