Do I get FOB a birthday present from LO?

[Sophie1205]

FOB left 3.5 weeks ago... was a messy split....turns out he was cheating and left me for this girl... So we arent on very good terms at all.
FOB's birthday is this saturday, should I get him a present from LO or not? Hes a disgusting, vile person so in my eyes doesnt deserve my money spent on him. BUT, its his son.... Ive bought him a card already, but what do you think about a present? My birthday is a week tomorrow (my 21st) and I dont reckon he will do the same for me but I dunno.....

 

[bluelilly72]

just give him the card better then nothing i personally would not if you know he wont do the same for you

 

[whoops]

I'd go with just a card.

 

[Sophie1205]

My mum said just the card too. Should I write in it myself (to daddy from Leo etc..) or my mum said just give Leo a pen and let him do what he wants in it? He cant write anything himself .. xx

 

[~RedLily~]

I would just give Leo the card and a pen.

 

[Marlarky]

I agree with giving Leo the card and pen. Maybe when he is done with his scribbling you could write it in if you wanted.

(I wouldnt put too much effort in it.. Its not like he is going to get you anything for Mother's Day "from" LO right?)

 

[jen1604]

It was just my exs birthday and I got him a card and just wrote 'to daddy from pheely and leni' and let them doodle in it.

I also got him a couple of little bits that were less than like £5 just because Ophelia is really excited about birthdays and giving presents at the moment so I thought it would be nice for her.

 

[Sophie1205]

Thanks ladies. I think I'll just write To Daddy From Leo and let Leo do what he wants in it. xx

 

[billy2mm]

ive never sent fob anything from my kids coz he doesnt bother sending them even so much as a card so he can go to f**k for all i care lol.

 

[lal]

I gave FOB a picture of our son, he didn't have any printed out. It was cheap and he loved it, and he also is vile to me but he's a really good dad to our son so I wanted to acknowledge/encourage that.

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

i wouldn't do anything tbh its not up to you anymore hun best sever the ties now tbh ! i would never and will never buy my ex anything from our LO .. thats up to his family to do now if they want to (when they have LO etc) x

 

[MrsKippling]

I would go with just the card! x