Do you still BD as much as the early TTC days?

[TrixieLox]

Reason I ask is that we've all done it: shagged for England (or Oz or US - wherever you're from!) in the hope it'd get us knocked up. But as the months go by, you think 'what's the bloody point?' I could have 20 truckloads of swimmers in me and they still don't bring me a baby, ha ha!

I'm not saying I don't love BDing with my gorgeous hubby, I just mean do you just return to the pre-TTC days of BDing?

Well, we're going for it this month but I've had so many months of 'going for it' before this, I'm damn cynical! x

 

[miel]

after over 15 month of trying ...we were slacking the 3 lasts months of those 15 we will still doing it but no really enthousiastic about it....but took a break last month i mean really we probably sleep with each other like 2 times in the all month !!!

SOOOOOO now i am in a really good mood to try again

 

[NeyNey]

Lol...

When we first started over 3 years ago we had a "lets GET EM" attitude, and we'd BD every other day all month long.

Now it's pretty much like this:
"The line is getting darker, you want to wait for me when I get home from work"
"Sure, just wake me up when you get it"
THEN...I get home....
"How dark is dark...can it wait until morning?"
"Yeah I guess so, lets just go to sleep"

 

[miel]

Lol...

When we first started over 3 years ago we had a "lets GET EM" attitude, and we'd BD every other day all month long.

Now it's pretty much like this:
"The line is getting darker, you want to wait for me when I get home from work"
"Sure, just wake me up when you get it"
THEN...I get home....
"How dark is dark...can it wait until morning?"
"Yeah I guess so, lets just go to sleep"

 

[Jan34]

We don't do it as much overall but have learnt to time it better for O.... so in the week run up to O every other day and then try for everyday for 2 to 3 days before O.

Had to slow down as every other day from day 6 - 20 as advised by the doc gave me horrible can't move off the toilet pissing blood cystitis, which wasn't very conducive to lots of BDing!

 

[CurlySue]

Lol...

When we first started over 3 years ago we had a "lets GET EM" attitude, and we'd BD every other day all month long.

Now it's pretty much like this:
"The line is getting darker, you want to wait for me when I get home from work"
"Sure, just wake me up when you get it"
THEN...I get home....
"How dark is dark...can it wait until morning?"
"Yeah I guess so, lets just go to sleep"

That is exactly me.

"Will you still be fertile in the morning?"

"If I'm fertile at all, yeah, probably."

"Night, then."

 

[Farie]

Lol...

When we first started over 3 years ago we had a "lets GET EM" attitude, and we'd BD every other day all month long.

Now it's pretty much like this:
"The line is getting darker, you want to wait for me when I get home from work"
"Sure, just wake me up when you get it"
THEN...I get home....
"How dark is dark...can it wait until morning?"
"Yeah I guess so, lets just go to sleep"

That is SO true!!

" I got my PEAK this morning!"

"Will you get one tomorrow?"

"Yes"

"We'll have an early night tomorrow then ..."

 

[tracybirduk]

I am exactly the same! When I started, I was so enthusiastic, but this month we have gone for it big time and done it everyday! I am now fully aquainted with my bedroom ceiling again!! Last month was terrible - once or twice the whole month!

 

[rachelle1975]

We are exactly the same! We would go for 2 weeks straight 'covering all bases' and then eagerly await that elusive ... then when it didn't happen we'd scratch our heads and revise our method for the month after.

So far this cycle the only bit of ttc DH has had was when he provide his sample last week I'm joking...we did manage it a week ago!

I think our sex drives went on holiday with our fertility and they decided not to come back!!