beth_terri
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I moved out when I was 16 (well got kicked out), but before then life at home was just awful. I hated both parents I really did. My mums such a control freak and has the worst mood swings ever. We're not close at all. We never go shopping together, we don't hug or anything like that, we don't call each other up just for a chat, I don't even often go round with the kids anymore as we just have nothing to talk about. They aren't the sort of grandparents that enjoy looking after the grand kids so that rarely happens. In fact she made a big deal about looking after my youngest the day my eldest had his operation as it ruined her camping plans.
I had my sons 4th birthday party round at theirs on Saturday, I'd asked if that would be ok as her house and garden is pretty big bad she said that would be fine. On the morning of the party I took my eldest round and all the food. I got everything sorted and put out. I then asked if she could pop a banner on the door whilst i went and picked up my oh, my youngest and the cake. She said that was fine. When I got home I found the dog had escaped so I spent ten mins searching for her. A couple of party guests arrived while I was out looking fir the dog and today a friend told me my mum had been complaining that I'd left her to do everything.
So I text her today just saying fancy telling Laura I left you to do everything at the party. Next thing I get a phone call with her shouting that she never said such a thing. Followed by a massive text saying how ungrateful I am and how I never appreciate anything and she had to tidy the garden and house before the party started and we left her to tidy it all up after. Me and my oh both tidied up after the party so I've no idea what she's on about there, and I didn't even think she would need me to tidy the house and garden before the party knowing that I had all the party food to sort, presents to wrap, decorations to get sorted, and cake to make that I was actually up until 3am finishing.
But now I'm the one in the wrong :/
I had my sons 4th birthday party round at theirs on Saturday, I'd asked if that would be ok as her house and garden is pretty big bad she said that would be fine. On the morning of the party I took my eldest round and all the food. I got everything sorted and put out. I then asked if she could pop a banner on the door whilst i went and picked up my oh, my youngest and the cake. She said that was fine. When I got home I found the dog had escaped so I spent ten mins searching for her. A couple of party guests arrived while I was out looking fir the dog and today a friend told me my mum had been complaining that I'd left her to do everything.
So I text her today just saying fancy telling Laura I left you to do everything at the party. Next thing I get a phone call with her shouting that she never said such a thing. Followed by a massive text saying how ungrateful I am and how I never appreciate anything and she had to tidy the garden and house before the party started and we left her to tidy it all up after. Me and my oh both tidied up after the party so I've no idea what she's on about there, and I didn't even think she would need me to tidy the house and garden before the party knowing that I had all the party food to sort, presents to wrap, decorations to get sorted, and cake to make that I was actually up until 3am finishing.
But now I'm the one in the wrong :/