Does anyone every feel that others want you to just give up?

[JASMAK]

I am just wondering if anyone else feels this way. I just get alot of comments about giving up, or queries as to when I will. It really p*sses me off. I mean...this isn't a dream of buying a blue sweater, where eventually I might change my mind for a red one. This is a baby!!! I know that I say sometimes that I might give up, but it is just me at a low point-and I never share that with anyone anyways...just you all.

 

[Yearning]

I got the distinct impression that my Dad was trying to say something along the line's of this today...however he was rather diplomatic about it.....but I have a one word response 'NEVER'!



Always....Yearning.x

 

[Kitty23]

Lol I hear that too often!

My DH has 2 brothers who's wives ( same age as me) all got pregnant by accident after being together a few months lol. Everyone keeps comparing the fact I'm not pregnant yet and they both got pregnant with ease!

I do sometimes feel like giving up because it hurts so much every month but I find it so friggin annoying that people assume if you don't get pregnant within 3 months you should just resign yourselves to be childless forever and collect cats!

xxx

 

[rachelle1975]

Yep me too - sometimes i wonder why i bother. I got a positive OPK yesterday so was excited yesterday morning but by last night i was in 'why am i bothering' mode.... just seems so silly putting all our hopes on it when he's hardly got any bloody swimmers as it is!

Roll on Thursday i say!