I have it on my face also and some on my neck. I shave mine too. I used to tweeze it but it ended up getting too out of hand to tweeze them all. I tried using an epilator, but I get ingrown hairs pretty bad. I got them with tweezing too and I assume it would be the same with waxing. I like to think I got pretty good at covering mine with makeup, but in certain lighting, I'm paranoid that people can tell. I have been with my OH for 6 years and I sneak and shave EVERY MORNING!
I also shave my arms because it's so thick and dark (not coarse) and my belly. I use cream hair remover on my mustache and on my bum. LOL! So embarrassing and I'm more embarrassed at the dr. office because I'm under those fluorescent lights.