Does anyone know that you're WTT?

[starlight123]

Neither my friends nor my family know. Only OH and Dr.

I haven't mentioned anything whatsoever to anyone. Part of me wants to tell the world but I don't want everyone knowing because I don't know how long TTC is going to take and I don't want to feel observed!

I'm not sure if it will come as a surprise or anyone is expecting it. It will be funny to see everyone's reaction!

 

[MUMOF5]

I've told a couple of my friends that we are planning a reversal, but not that we are ttc in dec, I don't think that they actually believe I am serious or that it will actually happen. We haven't told any family and aren't going to either, most of our family frown upon large families

 

[sambob]

Our families know that we'd like a Baby but we haven't told them that we're starting TTC from May!

 

[Bowmans]

Same here. No one really knows apart from me and DH - they know DH wanted to wait at least a year after getting married but after recent conversations with DH looks like that is going to be brought forward to May/June - very excited. Even when I do get my BFP I don't think I will tell anyone until my first scan - well that's the plan

 

[Squashy]

I have only told a couple of close friends who know how long I've been waiting for OH to be ready to try. 12 years is a looooonng time and we still don't have a wtt date as OH isn't working and isn't willing to discuss it. People generally think we just don't want children and mostly I play along with that as it's easier. One day the wait will be worth it...

 

[Swinx]

No one knows except OH and I. Everyone I know seems to focus on when we're going to get engaged, whereas I am more excited about when we get to start trying for a baby!

 

[aidensxmomma]

Pretty much everyone knows I want another child and knows I'm waiting to have one, but no one knows when we will be TTC. When the time comes for TTC, I will probably tell my best friends but I'll announce to everyone else after I'm pregnant. If we have problems, I will eventually talk to my family about it, but until then, they don't need to know. It took me a year to get pregnant with my youngest, so if that happens, I would rather not have the added pressure of people asking "are you pregnant yet"

 

[Eleanor ace]

No, not even my DH knows . Well, he knows I would like another but I am keeping it very casual- if we have a 3rd I don't want it to be because I pressured him into it, so I've only brought it up a few times when it's een natural- when a couple we're friends with had their 3rd, when I'm packing away DD's little clothes etc. If he decides we're having a 3rd I probab;y won't tell anyone- it will be a great suprise

 

[Katy Bug]

None of my family knows we've talked about it and plan on ttc in May/June. They all think I'm still wanting to wait another 2 or 3 until another, but as much as I tell them I'd like to wait, I really would like another. I go back and forth between wanting another right away and just trying to take things slow. My child now is a wild thing but he's a very good, sweet boy, sleeps through the night. He's still in diapers but hopefully will start training when he hits 2.

 

[tinkerbelle93]

Not really, although since my son turned 2 we've been getting a lot of 'So you thinking about the next one then?', especially since we finally moved into our own house and got married and got a bigger 'family' car We usually just say 'Maybe, who knows' I honestly think nobody would be at all shocked if we announced a pregnancy now.

 

[kristycakes]

Some of my close friends and family know but we are mostly keeping it a secret. I feel like there is too much pressure if everyone knows so we are keeping it close between our family and friend for now.

 

[Springermommy]

Our parents know. I think they wish it was sooner! Oh well.

 

[sequeena]

People know we want another but 'not yet' so yes I guess they know we're WTT