I'm curious. We have just been at stay and play and dd asked to leave early because she was tired. As we got up to leave, one of the mums said " they only seem to like wearing boys clothes. " i shot a look and waked out as all 3 of the mums started giggling.
DD was wearing , black jeans, with a white tshirt, and a blue lumberjack style shirt. Hair up and had some clarks shoes on that are tan and pink ( I know they don't match but we appear to have lost her pair that would have matched). I gave her the option this morning of the out for she chose or a jumper dress and leggings and she picked what she did. I was wearing an oversized hoody, skinny jeans and boots. ( I didn't look like a scruff or anything, I had makeup on) So yes, we were not dressed " girly". But we were both comfy and warm, and we picked our own outfits.
It annoyed me quite a bit because it's not the first time we have had comments on her outfits, ( is she a girl or a boy because she was wearing a batman tshirt, and when she wore a spider girl costume everyone made a huge deal about how she was wearing a dress and kept asking her if she even liked spiderman. She loves superhero. She has no idea what they do or who they are but her brother is into them so she recognises them and makes their sounds). It's also not the first time some of the mums have made comments in a different language about me and oh, they obviously still don't realise I understand what they are saying ( one of the most annoying being, do neither of them work? They are both always here, they must both sit at home claiming benefits. Which annoyed me because oh does work. Just he is lucky in that he works 3 or 4 days a week and brings in a decent wage which means he can be at these sessions. )
DD doesn't wear skirts and dresses often, I offer her 2 outfits everyday and she picks what she wants. Saying that, she has been wearing skirts for the last 2 days.
So yes. Just curious if your dds Wear dressed everyday? And I'm sorry about the rant. I feel like my 21 month old baby is being judged already for her choice of clothes.
DD was wearing , black jeans, with a white tshirt, and a blue lumberjack style shirt. Hair up and had some clarks shoes on that are tan and pink ( I know they don't match but we appear to have lost her pair that would have matched). I gave her the option this morning of the out for she chose or a jumper dress and leggings and she picked what she did. I was wearing an oversized hoody, skinny jeans and boots. ( I didn't look like a scruff or anything, I had makeup on) So yes, we were not dressed " girly". But we were both comfy and warm, and we picked our own outfits.
It annoyed me quite a bit because it's not the first time we have had comments on her outfits, ( is she a girl or a boy because she was wearing a batman tshirt, and when she wore a spider girl costume everyone made a huge deal about how she was wearing a dress and kept asking her if she even liked spiderman. She loves superhero. She has no idea what they do or who they are but her brother is into them so she recognises them and makes their sounds). It's also not the first time some of the mums have made comments in a different language about me and oh, they obviously still don't realise I understand what they are saying ( one of the most annoying being, do neither of them work? They are both always here, they must both sit at home claiming benefits. Which annoyed me because oh does work. Just he is lucky in that he works 3 or 4 days a week and brings in a decent wage which means he can be at these sessions. )
DD doesn't wear skirts and dresses often, I offer her 2 outfits everyday and she picks what she wants. Saying that, she has been wearing skirts for the last 2 days.
So yes. Just curious if your dds Wear dressed everyday? And I'm sorry about the rant. I feel like my 21 month old baby is being judged already for her choice of clothes.
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Оtherwise I like dresses.
So no, she wears a dress maybe a few times a year when I know she's mostly going to be inside or we'll be somewhere nice, like an outdoor garden wedding where it won't automatically get dragged in the water and dirt. I think it's weird that anyone would comment on your LO's clothes. I would just chalk it up to people having too much time on their hands and never getting their kids outside, which is bad all around for their kids.
