Don't know if i'm coming or going...

[loopylew]

Hi girls, well yesterday i was stressing that i didn't think we had BD'ed enough around ovulation times and missed the boat. Yesterday afternoon my nipples started to get sore and are still sore today which is a sure sign for me that AF is coming in next 4-5 days which would mean my cycles are still all over the place and i don't know when i'm ovulating or due for AF!!! its soooooooo frustrating. Between CD19-21 i had stabbing pains every now and again and i don't know what they were now, thought they were ov pains but clearly not if cycle is going to be shorter than last month.

 

[NeyNey]

Yikes! lots of sweetie.
I hope it's not AF - have you been watching your CM?
I just wanted to wish you the best luck

 

[loopylew]

Yeah i have been and when i thought i was ovulating i did get clear stretchy etc and creamy white before that, going back to almost nothing now. I'm not very good monitoring my cm though.

 

[NeyNey]

Aww heck hun I'm not much better at it myself. I'd bd a bit more just in case it is a late ovulation

 

[polo_princess]

sorry your having a nightmare month

 

[loopylew]

we bd'ed last night so we're still covering all options hopefully. total pain in the bum. Just looked in my work diray where i'm tracking any symptons/feelings etcand i have noted "womb pain" on days 12-14 so i bet i did ov then and this is AF coming, looking back, lord only knows what the stabbing pains where, which i htought was ov.. shall just wait and see

 

[jo27]

I think i'm gonna try using OPK's next month so i can be sure when i'm ovulating - you could give them a try if your cycles are still all over the place

 

[loopylew]

yeah think i'm gonna cos i don't know where i am with cycles etc

 

[avistar]

OH I feel ya!! SO frustrating!! If you have been bding a lot then hope is not lost!! Maybe you were releasing more than one egg??? it is possible.

 

[loopylew]

maybe, gone back to creamy cm so i think i did just ovulate earlier than i thought. Gonna splash out on one of them digi monitors in a couple of months if i'm not pg before then. Got a 5 days opk yesterday, used one strip yesterday eve which said i wasn't ov'ing so gonna keep the other 4 for next month

 

[Tiffers]

Aw hun! I am sorry this month was all over the place!! So frusterating hun?!?! I came off of bc about 5 months ago and my cycles have been ALLLL over since then!! SO I have been using OPKs to let me know when I am ovulating.. I haven't gotten preggers but at least I have the comfort of knowing when I am ovulating and when to expect AF!! Best of luck hun!