I feel so stupid/embarrassed. I've sent invitations to about 45 people and nothing. No rsvp's; no one even acknowledges that they've received an invitation and I'm just so confused! I pretty much planned my entire shower, as my mom has been out of town and my sister lost interest...all of my guests' meals will be paid for at the best restaurant in town, Chanel no5 and a $100 restaurant gift card are the prizes for the winners of the 2 baby shower games, favors are bottles of OPI nail polishes, I had all of the invitations custom-made, everyone gets their own mini cake, rather than a slice, and we're serving bottomless champagne. I'll be devastated if no one shows! Is it because it is for ladies only and no kids are allowed? I mean, could ppl be offended? Do women have to bring their children/men everywhere? I'm so confused! Anyone in the same boat?