dont think i can do this :(

[libbymarks198]

yesterday had morning sickness then all day felt so so sick got home from work and started vomiting until about 4 am this morning and now i have woken up feeling so sick again cant even drink. i cant handle being sick and i cant afford days off work this sucks

 

[mommytobe325]

aww i know just how you feel. the first 3 months of my pregnancy was hell as far as being tired and nauseous. everyone was telling me it'd go away by the second trimester but i thought for sure i'd be the only exception. it'll definately get better, nothing to really do but wait it out really. something that i found that kind of helped was drinking ginger ale. it's caffeine free, the ginger settled my tummy most of the time, and the sugar in it gave me energy for at least a little while. feel better soon!

 

[mummy3]

Hun I'm in the same boat. have you gone to your doc and got some anti sickness pills? They can make the world of difference

 

[amygwen]

I know how you feel! Thinking about how horrible my morning sickness was makes me feel sick. :/ There are a lot of weighs to help prevent morning sickness have you looked into them? I know something that helped me would be eating crackers in bed before I woke up in the morning.. because otherwise I'd wake up first thing and get really lightheaded and throw up.. so as long as you have something in your stomach it should make you feel a bit better. And, drinking fizzy drinks, sparking water worked magic for me because burping helped the sickness and I burp a lot with fizzy drinks. It will get better for you, promise! The worst is in the beginning, and then the heartburn may come later on, but heartburn is a lot easier to deal with then morning sickness.

 

[libbymarks198]

thanks everyone, ive never felt this sick before, i cant eat before bed because i feel sick same as the morning and at tea time i can only eat lunch.

i feel so lonley because OH doesnt understand and said i wanted to be pregnant so deal with it and when ever i'm sick i want my mum but i cant tell her i'm pregnant.

i just keep crying this is awful

 

[amygwen]

Why can't you tell her your pregnant?? You should tell her! It will be so much better to have more support from your family if you tell them.

 

[rainbows_x]

thanks everyone, ive never felt this sick before, i cant eat before bed because i feel sick same as the morning and at tea time i can only eat lunch.

i feel so lonley because OH doesnt understand and said i wanted to be pregnant so deal with it and when ever i'm sick i want my mum but i cant tell her i'm pregnant.

i just keep crying this is awful

Ahh I was exactly the same when I was pregnant.

I couldn't keep anything down and constantly threw up, I hated it & basically stayed in bed the first 12 weeks
My OH also used to say basically you wanted to be pregnant so live with it!

Why can't you tell your mum yet hun? I told my mum quite early (8 weeks) and she and my family were very supportive when I talked to them about sicknes etc. x

 

[libbymarks198]

mum came around today yelling at me saying i better not be pregnant and stuff. i cant tell her when im sick she will just say its my fault

 

[Sophiiie]

x

 

[pansylove]

i had it really bad too so i know how you feel like people say though, it DOES go!! even though the end feels nowhere near! i had mine until 17 weeks unfortunately but as soon as it went it was so instant and i suddenly felt amazing. you literally do wake up one day and it has gone!
try having some rich tea biscuits by your bed and have one or two before you get up in the morning. that really helped me xxx

 

[xsammix]

Poor you.
I was hospitalised due to severe morning sickness with my first....I continued to throw up daily until I gave birth.
Second time round was the same but I now have it under control and haven`t been sick since 18 weeks.
Heres some ideas you could try to make you feel a little better....
Anti sickness travel bands (life saver for me)
Rest as much as possible.
Eat little and often.
Fizzy pop
If your taking folic acid/vitamin take the before bed.

Hope this helps x

 

[rjb]

i don't know how much it helps, but i was horribly sick when i took my prenatals, so i started taking the just before bed. it may not make much difference, but it helped me out.

 

[lb]

I was miserable until the beginning of week 17. my dr gave me promethazine and odenestron for nausea during the first trimester, and then i figured out that my otc prenatal vitamins were making me sick. i've since gotten prescription vitamins and those don't make me sick. i used to just lay in bed all day and hope that i didn't get sick. always kept a glass of ginger ale and something small to eat next to me. keep your portioning small so you don't throw up a whole lot. my dr told me that eating isn't as important in the first trimester as pushing fluids is. it'll get better, promise, love

 

[miyu]

Hi I hope you don't mind me popping in, even though I'm 24!

I found out I was pregnant with my first at 17, I had moved away so was easier to hide the pregnancy from my nan (she raised me) I didn't tell her until 20 weeks, and she had always told me if I got pregnant she would go crazy! But she didn't, she was dissapointed but she didn't go off on one, more dissapointed that I didn't tell her! I'm now pregnant for the third time and I think she was worse this time than both the others, and I just thought sod it, it's my choice she can think what she likes!

I had fallen out with my dad so he didn't know until my daughter was 4 months, not good lol, he was so shocked! But he was supportive too!

Maybe when your mum says you better not be pregnant, you could say well you think you might be and would she mind being there when you take a test? I heard of someone doing it this way and the mother felt more involved and took it better. Parents can surprise you sometimes, they just worry about us, as we worry about our babies. Another way is to make sure you have the answers to all her questions about how you are going to cope and fit a baby into your lives, so they know you are taking control of the situation

As for the sickness, mine got soooo bad I'd totally had enough yesterday, but I got the antisickness bands that go around your wrist, kept them on lastnight, and this morning instead of waking up and straight away being head first down the loo......nothing!! I've been so happy all day because I had felt so ill and it's such an improvement! Other things I've heard of that help, sucking on mints, lucozade, ginger, arrow root biscuits, lemonade, and you can get anti-sickness meds from the doc that are safe in pregnancy.

I hope I've helped a little sweetie, and hope you feel better soon, the other ladies are right it won't last forever, and OH shouldn't be so insensitive, just because we want the baby doesn't mean we like being sick!

 

[lushious09]

end of the day what did you expect would happen when your pregnant? ... good news is it should only last up to 14 weeks max after that it gets easy but towards the end my god you think its bad now lol... i would rather have the awful sickness then the constant mild contractions the need to go to the loo constantly the indegestion the back pain the pelvis pain the weight the lack of sleep! pft enjoy it whilst your early on

 

[x__amour]

Poor thing
I know exactly how you feel. I had awful morning sickness until about 17 weeks. But I promise you, things'll get better soon! And if not, definitely talk to your OB about it. The beginning is hard, but soon you'll see your darling baby, and then they'll start kicking, get hiccups, toss and turn in your tummy while you smile and before you know it, you'll be holding your little one. Hang in there, stay strong, and we're all here for you!

 

[libbymarks198]

thanks girls, i ended up getting some medication from the doctor as i could not even keep liquid down it seems to be helping lots which is good was able to go back to work today.

i always knew i would get m/s but i didnt think it would last all day 24 hours a day could not even sleep or work it was nasty. i just got to remember to eat and eat and eat lol

 

[angelkisses]

mum came around today yelling at me saying i better not be pregnant and stuff. i cant tell her when im sick she will just say its my fault

awww sweety many many years ago I was a teenager and pregnant, I wished I had the courage to tell my mum earlier that I was pregnant with our first child. She use to say hurtful things like you better not be pregnant cos I dont want to be a grandmother etc. I didnt tell her till a week before I had my son and she broke down crying wishing she had been there for me and was soooo sorry for all the stupid comments she made.

I hope you get the support from your family and friends and keep coming on here for support.

Take care xo

 

[libbymarks198]

mum came around today yelling at me saying i better not be pregnant and stuff. i cant tell her when im sick she will just say its my fault

awww sweety many many years ago I was a teenager and pregnant, I wished I had the courage to tell my mum earlier that I was pregnant with our first child. She use to say hurtful things like you better not be pregnant cos I dont want to be a grandmother etc. I didnt tell her till a week before I had my son and she broke down crying wishing she had been there for me and was soooo sorry for all the stupid comments she made.

I hope you get the support from your family and friends and keep coming on here for support.

Take care xo

wow how did you keep it for that long!

i will tell her when i am passed the 12 week mark i just cant be botherd with he suggesting something i dont want to do so if im passed 12 weeks she cant say anything like that.

 

[angelkisses]

mum came around today yelling at me saying i better not be pregnant and stuff. i cant tell her when im sick she will just say its my fault

awww sweety many many years ago I was a teenager and pregnant, I wished I had the courage to tell my mum earlier that I was pregnant with our first child. She use to say hurtful things like you better not be pregnant cos I dont want to be a grandmother etc. I didnt tell her till a week before I had my son and she broke down crying wishing she had been there for me and was soooo sorry for all the stupid comments she made.

I hope you get the support from your family and friends and keep coming on here for support.

Take care xo

wow how did you keep it for that long!

i will tell her when i am passed the 12 week mark i just cant be botherd with he suggesting something i dont want to do so if im passed 12 weeks she cant say anything like that.

I had moved away with my boyfriend who is now the old hubby and when I saw mum at xmas I think I was 20 weeks she asked if I was pregnant I'd jus say naaah Im fat...and it helped that the homie style was in so it was fashionable to wear clothes ten times ur size hehehe