dont want to be pregnant anymore :(

[Mummy23beauts]

Please dont jump on me for saying that, it hurts so bad to feel this way... I have extreme hg, iv had it for the last 9-10weeks... nothing at all stays down including water even though im on strong anti sickness tabs. ..even when I do finally get to keep a little something down I end up with painful stomach pains and diarrhea to the point I'm feeling faint. When will this stop? When will I get a chance to feel even a little bit better?

 

[Julz27]

Aww poor you! I had hyperemesis too so I know how awful it can be. I tried a few sickness tablets and ended up in hospital at 17 weeks, but since then my new tablets have been wonderful and I've managed to cut them down from 3 a day to just a half in the morning. I'm feeling so much better now and though the nausea isn't totally gone, it's manageable and I feel almost normal. I spent ages feeling sorry for myself but now I feel a bit better and can feel my baby girl kicking all day I know it was all worth it and I'll happily do it again for a second baby.

Just focus on the wonderful prize you'll get at the end. It's all worth it.

Hope you feel better soon. x

 

[calm]

Ah hun that is awful Its normal you feel that way, it must be horrid to be so sick day after day

 

[Mypreciouskid]

I'm so sorry you're so sick! I can't even imagine!

 

[Kern]

I get how you're feeling. I've had intense round ligament pain for two said days and I'm feeling the same as you. This is just miserable. Then I feel the little one kick and I feel terrible for thinking that way.

I hope you feel better soon.

 

[jhughes0709]

aw man That has to be awful! (((hugs))) I hope things start getting better for you soon!! I was the sickest I've been with any of my pregnancies this time around and it def makes you feel horrible. luckily you are in the 2nd trimester and hopefully your hormones will start to level off and you will start to feel better.

 

[junebaby08]

I feel that way sometimes, but im trying to enjoy, as its my.last

 

[MummyToAmberx]

Hey ive got HG been throwing up for 11w now.

Have you had any good days?
Have you tried different meds or been put on more than one?
Do you take vit B6?

Mine is no where as bad as first tri but ive had 2 relapses since hitting 14w.

I have days i feel the same, i feel i cant go out far or do much with my 2 girls.
Im starting to look at positives and focus on them.
I look back and think WOW ive made it this far, now to get through 2nd tri as best as possible.

Then its home stretch. The fedling i will get (and you) when we finally birth our babies and say ' We did it!!'

 

[Maybe1daysoon]

Aww I know what its like to vomit everything in you stomach plus bile, then retch from weird stomach convulsions that make you vomit when there is NOTHING LEFT... then suffer from horrific gut pain when you do manage to keep a cup of water and saltine cracker down. Again I'm sorry your going through this. But I can say that it does get better. I throw up once a day usually in the morning now. It took a turn for the better about 2 weeks ago. It's not 100% perfect but it's MUCH better than the way I was and you currently are suffering. It's an experience we will never forget. YOU CAN DO THIS MAMA! You will do this! You are doing great. Talk to you doctor tell them its debilitating and you cant function. There were days I felt I couldn't go on. Maybe I was dramatic or hormonal but I called my mother several times crying and saying that I thought I was going to die (its almost funny now).... but i promise that it gets better gradually.

 

[Pauls_angel]

Aw mummy23beauts - don't feel bad for saying that. I know just how you feel. I'll be 18 weeks tomorrow and have had awful hg since 4+3 weeks. I also have round ligament pain, have just been diagnosed with spd and have suspected obstetric cholestasis. We tried to fall pregnant for two years with no success, then found out my DH was sterile after failed ivf attempt (TESA revealed zero sperm production). We advertised for an embryo donor - after 3 months we found one who gave us nine 5 day blasts. Had our first transferred in Nov 13 and miscarried at 6 weeks, had our second transferred late Dec 13 and miscarried at 5 weeks. Am now preg with our rainbow baby and had such high expectations that I would love everything about pregnancy. So far it's been nothing but sickness and pain. I've lost weight rather than gained and still have zero bump! So sending massive hugs your way lovely and hoping we both make it through without going completely mad xx

 

[Mummy23beauts]

Thank you all for your kind words im currently sat in tears as I have no1 to talk to about how I feel... I have 3 other children and I cant do anything them as I am constantly sick... iv tried more than one sickness tab and am on something else as I burst blood vessels in my throat and was throwing up blood clots. I haven't had one days rest from this. I can only pray it gets better but right now it seems to have gone from bad to worse x

 

[Pixiedust22]

Don't feel bad, it sounds like your situation is awful! I hope it gets better soon. Can you go back to the doctor and get them to put you on something else? Maybe this particular sickness tablet just isn't working for you.

 

[Elodie]

You poor thing. I haven't had HG so don't know what that's like but I have also had a very challenging pregnancy including bleeding and needing a cervical stitch and now being on modified bed rest. The pregnancy is not what I thought it would be and it is really hard to be happy about it sometimes.

I don't really have any advice apart from try not to feel guilty about these feelings as they are completely normal and you are not alone.

I hope you find something soon that makes you feel better.

Elodie

 

[Brightxeyes]

Aww sorry to hear you're having such a lousy pregnancy! All you want to do is enjoy it and I guess it just feels like one big illness for you right now!

Can't your doctor try you on something else instead?? Xxx

 

[NotNic]

I think that's completely normal. Personally I'm not a pregnancy fan. Some ladies glow and relish in it. I'm not one of them. It's especially hard at that sickly stage before you have a bump or kicks to reassure you and remind you what it's all for. Like pp, I was adamant that this time I would enjoy it, especially as i escaped ms this time, but im not there yet. Wearing my truth cap here, if I could take the bump off, park it somewhere and pick it up at 8mths I'd be happy. I don't even have too bad an experience with it, I just find that it slows me down and forces me to spend time looking after myself which I find strange. I am extremely grateful to be blessed with a baby though, and I know I will enjoy it a bit more once my 20 wk scan has happened. I'm just not so keen on the journey it takes to get to holding my newborn.

Do get to the drs. It sounds like its time to try something else xx

 

[sweetcheeks78]

Hon it sounds like you need to be in hospital for a few days to get some rest and get your strength up. One of my best friends had HG and they did manage to sort out her medication to get it under control in the end, but until they did that she was so weak she could barely stand, and ended up in hopsital on a drip as she was so dehydrated. I think it was after that she turned the corner and started to feel better. I hope you get some respite from it soon hon, huge hugs xxx

 

[hannah berry]

AWW sorry for you i feel the same time times i was so sick a few weeks ago static nerve pain a lot too and looking after a one year old kills me. ihope you hang in there. good luck

 

[Bex84]

I have had hg this pregnancy and last one. With my dd i was in hospital twice till i was able to manage with medication. This time doctor gave me medication as soon as started having problems again. For me the sickness is worse than birth pain but all is worth it when hold baby. I would go to doctor to sort out medication and go to hospital and be on drip if need be. Hope your ok. Sickness is horrible, my poor dd had to put up with me being dizzy, unable to go for walk and sickness and was such a good girl. Thankfully is alot better now

 

[Mummy23beauts]

Thank you ladies for your kind words... I've had my tabs changed and im not actively sick as much now but still super nauseous... its loads better than how I was so fingers crossed im getting over the worst of it x