Dream's last minute wedding journal!

[princessellie]

its fine, youre from near enough to liverpool to be orange and get away with it x

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

Cheeky mare! xx

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

The guy was meant to be coming to alter the bridesmaid dresses today and he never turned up Why can't things go smoothly xx

 

[randomxx]

have you spoke to him hun? xx

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

Yeah, he might be coming tomorrow instead. I need to check one of my BM's can make it xx

 

[randomxx]

i hope he turns up for you tomorrow hun, then thats another thing you can score off your list x

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

Will have to be weds now. Need to ring him tomorrow and rearrange xx

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

I'm not having a good day today

Edward is in a massive grump. OH keeps forgetting to do stuff so things don't get sorted. Like not remembering to cancel the dress fitter which I asked him to do because I knew I wouldn't get to ring early enough. So then my mum starts giving me shit on the phone and I told her to stop being a cow so now she's not really talking to me. Fanbloodytastic. I am not enjoying these last few weeks of planning at all. I don't really have that much left to do but other people just seem intent on stressing me out

I'm sorry to be so whiny. I just feel like my head is going to explode

 

[honeybee2]

its perfectly natural to feel like this hunny- you should understand also that although it seems your the one doing ALL the planning and organising (which Im pretty sure it is!) your family are going through alot too. Your OH is also getting married and your mum's child is having the biggest day of her life next week. Its got to be stressful and life changing for alot of people.

Take a deep breath and have a relaxing talk with your OH. Have a big glass of wine and spend 30 mins in a hot bubble bath taking it all in. Everything will still be there for you when you come back- but you'll feel a little better xx

 

[twiggy56]

R needs a kick up the bum!!! He should be trying to relax his bride...threaten him with saying 'no' at the altar for a joke!

and vent away m'dear...thats what your journal is for! Was he emant to cancel the fitting for the new dress or was that an appointment past for that old one that never got in contact with you?!

You're doing fab hun

 

[honeybee2]

ye you are, I agree with twiggles!!!! when I said a 'chat' with your OH I meant a "do it, or feel the back of my hand!"

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

R needs a kick up the bum!!! He should be trying to relax his bride...threaten him with saying 'no' at the altar for a joke!

and vent away m'dear...thats what your journal is for! Was he emant to cancel the fitting for the new dress or was that an appointment past for that old one that never got in contact with you?!

You're doing fab hun

It was the BM's dresses not mine It's rearranged for tomorrow now.

ye you are, I agree with twiggles!!!! when I said a 'chat' with your OH I meant a "do it, or feel the back of my hand!"

Yeah he knows all too well I mean business. It's mostly his bloody side of the family stressing me out and IMO they don't even deserve to be there. Still nothing on his uncles suits front. Don't think they've been fitted, so we've fucking paid for them and they can't even be bothered to get their measurements done so they're going to waste. But we don't dare ask other people to fill in because they'll just give us hell. Still not heard from his mum since the whole debacle after xmas. I don't even want them there, they're strangers to me. He's upset with them too, but they're his family so it's different for him I guess. Although the message relayed from his mum via his uncle was "it seems like you want to stop talking to us or seeing us, that's fine if it's what you want, just let us know." I mean WTF?! He's her son. I don't want her at our wedding causing shit which I know she will. His nan isn't even bothering to come. :sigh:

 

[honeybee2]

my Oh's nan isnt bothering either- she lives up north and wouldnt dare leave her dog! Never even met her!

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

Now my father is giving me shit. Full explanation in the Girly Sanc for those who have access. I just want the wedding to be here and done now.

 

[randomxx]

Aww big hun, try not to let it all stress you out, your wedding day will be perfect with or without them hun xx

 

[booflebump]

It's a joke - sorry I haven't had a chance to reply in there yet

You and R and E will have a lovely day - if people don't want to come, it will only be them that regrets it. His mother is something else - if she wants to miss her own sons wedding because she is throwing a tantrum, then she deserves not to see him, you or her grandson xxx

 

[honeybee2]

I agree boofs- replied to you in GS dream xxx

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

I'm feeling better today

Everything is pretty much done. The only problem is I'm still make up artist-less. So need to get one pronto. I'm actually really really excited now Although still liable to burst into tears for no real reason xx

 

[honeybee2]

dream have you phoned your local salon?

If not watch a few make up applying tricks on youtube and buy some quality stuff like maxfactor! But get a primer with NO spf!

 

[booflebump]

SPF = brides worst enemy! Have you asked at your local salon? While I'm having a seperate make up artist, my hairdresser does make up too. What area are you in hun, pm me and I might be able to help (the wonders of wedding bloggers and twitter)