DillyDaffodil
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We're TTC much later than we initially planned due to some major life stuff that happened over the past two years. We're still young(ish, anyway): I'm 31 and my husband is 34.
We just finished our first month of trying - AF is coming today. I'm trying not to be too discouraged, but if we try next month, that will put me with an Oct 8th due date. My big brother's wedding is Oct 1st. To make matters more complicated, it will be held at my parents house in their backyard.
So while I am definitely worried about taking away from their big day, I'm also worried about the strain it would put on my parents. They will have to focus on throwing a huge important party at their house, and clean up from it, but then also deal with the arrival of their first grandchild and wanting to help us.
I'd rather not tell anyone that we're trying yet. Its so early, we don't know if there will be any major road bumps in our way. I'd rather not have everyone up in our business any more than they already are (seriously, if my FIL hints at a baby one more time I'm going to throw him through a window).
I know the right thing to do is just skip this month. But... That is the most disheartening thing ever. We *just* got started
What would you do?
We just finished our first month of trying - AF is coming today. I'm trying not to be too discouraged, but if we try next month, that will put me with an Oct 8th due date. My big brother's wedding is Oct 1st. To make matters more complicated, it will be held at my parents house in their backyard.
So while I am definitely worried about taking away from their big day, I'm also worried about the strain it would put on my parents. They will have to focus on throwing a huge important party at their house, and clean up from it, but then also deal with the arrival of their first grandchild and wanting to help us.
I'd rather not tell anyone that we're trying yet. Its so early, we don't know if there will be any major road bumps in our way. I'd rather not have everyone up in our business any more than they already are (seriously, if my FIL hints at a baby one more time I'm going to throw him through a window).
I know the right thing to do is just skip this month. But... That is the most disheartening thing ever. We *just* got started
What would you do?