Early 30's TTC #1

[Crumbs]

hahaha OK HOPEFULMAMA!, but I dont know your real name
I sometimes worry if someone I know might find all these posts and even though I don't disclose my real identity (arianne is not my real name), someone that knows me would know this is me... city I live in, age, stuff I post like going to vegas etc.... sometimes I feel I shouldn't be posting non-related ttc stuff...
Maybe it will be a good idea to create a private facebook group with all the active girls on this thread? what do you girls think? It will be more personal and private I can create it if you girls agree with it...

Even though I said I want to be super anonymous, I'm for the FB page! But can you name it something ambiguous? I wouldn't want it to auto-post my joining "TTC and wanting to be pregnant already Club"

Oh, can we have it private as well?

 

[Crumbs]

P.S. When's the new TTC #1 section opening up already? It probably won't change much but I'd feel like it'd be so much more private there!

 

[pink80]

I'm seriously going to have to try harder to keep up with this post - you guys talks alot

Sorry for the s guys - although you're not out at 12dpo Arianne

As for my Anemia - it's definitely caused the blood loss following my miscarriage last week - as there was so much blood and I lost it in such a short space of time - it's hit me quite hard and I feel awful.

I like the idea of a facebook page - although as Crumbs says I would like the group name not togive us away - my OH would have a fit!

Hope you are all having a good day

xx

 

[rosababy]

Hey ladies! I don't have much time here, so a quick post and I'll catch up later. No AF yet. I had some cramps last night, and used my heating pad, but none today and no other signs of her arrival. I'm so SICK of waiting! 16 dpo by now...maybe I o'ed late?! I've heard clomid can make the LP longer, so I'm pretty annoyed right now.

I'm REALLY cranky today and so tired that I could fall asleep on my desk...however, so is my dh, so I doubt it's a preggo symptom.

 

[SMFirst]

I agree SMFirst - it is hard to keep up with the posts. I read thru then and think of something to reply to each one but by the time I get to the end I can't remember half of what I was going to say.

me too! I almost feel like I need to write stuff down to remember (or have two windows open on the computer )

Hi mrsmax good luck with your tests.

rosa - sorry you are feeling yucky

 

[rosababy]

hahaha OK HOPEFULMAMA!, but I dont know your real name
I sometimes worry if someone I know might find all these posts and even though I don't disclose my real identity (arianne is not my real name), someone that knows me would know this is me... city I live in, age, stuff I post like going to vegas etc.... sometimes I feel I shouldn't be posting non-related ttc stuff...
Maybe it will be a good idea to create a private facebook group with all the active girls on this thread? what do you girls think? It will be more personal and private I can create it if you girls agree with it...

Whew! We sure have been busy posting today! I love it! I feel like I also need to write things down to remember what I wanted to respond to!
I love this FB idea!

 

[rosababy]

I feel emotionally ok, I dont know why although I cried after our appt... my hubby and I where sitting on the couch going over all the stuff the doc told us, and I saw our wedding pic and started to cry thinking "little did I know at that time that years later I was going to go thru all these" but I am calmed and relaxed which is very important Deep inside I feel that it WILL happen... although sometimes I fear it might NEVER happen hahha what a contradiction of thoughts!

I feel the same way at times. Deep down, I have faith that it will eventually happen, but the little nervous part of me keeps saying but what if it won't...

Rosa - so sorry about hte BFN - but the Clomd will work for you..

Thanks, Susan. I hope it works sooner than later before I LOSE MY MIND!

OMG! Wow - 2 days away and so many wonderful posts!

Welcome back Arianne I am off to see doc next week and he will refer me to fertility clinic (he thinks this is my 12th month, it is my 10th). He said the first test will be HSG - I am looking forward to that, just cause the not knowing is so frustrating. I am now convinced my tubes are blocked!!

I have been thinking recently about what would I do if someone from "real life" stumbled across my posts and it def stops me saying not ttc stuff, even when I'm bursting to share. I think the only thing I would be worried about it what dh would say knowing that our sex life was out in the public eye

Rosa - I love your comment about a baby on Christmas day. I said the same thing to dh the other day. I really dont care anymore - even new years eve is fine!!

Let's get that Christmas baby!! I also find myself watching what I say that is non-ttc related, or even ttc related but too personal. You just never know. I sometimes forget that people who are not members can read all of these posts...

Even though I said I want to be super anonymous, I'm for the FB page! But can you name it something ambiguous? I wouldn't want it to auto-post my joining "TTC and wanting to be pregnant already Club"

Oh, can we have it private as well?

Seriously! I didn't think of that!! Some ambiguous name would be nice.

P.S. When's the new TTC #1 section opening up already? It probably won't change much but I'd feel like it'd be so much more private there!

I don't know, but I like that it's more private, too! It's been "coming soon" forever now!

I'll bet whoever taught me to multi-quote in the same post is really regretting that now...

 

[hopefulmama2b]

We have the best thread

I think when you create a private group on FB it even hides the title so it doesn't announce to the FB world that you've even joined the group...but I agree lets call it something non-ttc just in case. Something like, "early 30's trying to eat more veggies." No one would take a second look then.

 

[Crumbs]

We have the best thread

I think when you create a private group on FB it even hides the title so it doesn't announce to the FB world that you've even joined the group...but I agree lets call it something non-ttc just in case. Something like, "early 30's trying to eat more veggies." No one would take a second look then.

Veggies! That's great! But what about Beans? Or something with beans.

 

[hopefulmama2b]

Veggies! That's great! But what about Beans? Or something with beans.

you're right! No one wants to read about a bunch of girls trying to increase their bean intake. Haha!

 

[mrsmax]

I just have to say - hysterical!! I love the girls and bean thing! Brilliant. Made me laugh out loud. Only problem with a FB page is it is one more place to sign into and check messages (i'm just lazy)

Also, just thought - what if any of us already know each other in RL and don't realise it!!

 

[SMFirst]

That would be funny mrsmax - when I first joined this site I scanned to see if my sister was here! And I complained about another friend of mine but then worried that she might somehow be on here and read it..

In another thread I joined there were two girls that had gone to the same highschool at the same time but in different grades and they didn't know it..

 

[rosababy]

Veggies! That's great! But what about Beans? Or something with beans.

you're right! No one wants to read about a bunch of girls trying to increase their bean intake. Haha!

I love it!!!

I just have to say - hysterical!! I love the girls and bean thing! Brilliant. Made me laugh out loud. Only problem with a FB page is it is one more place to sign into and check messages (i'm just lazy)

Also, just thought - what if any of us already know each other in RL and don't realise it!!

Wouldn't that be a hoot?! I love you ladies! This is an awesome thread.

 

[hopefulmama2b]

Mrsmax! The exact same thing crossed my mind about already knowing someone! I'm a business owner and thought-oh god what if one of them is an employee of mine! they wouldn't be in the ttc #1 group though so I think I'm good!

 

[arianne]

I was thinking about giving it a name that it's hard to guess like "TFBHB divas" or what about "same objective, different nationalities"....
mmm I like the idea about smth with beans... I love beans! and want one too!

Also, I will be creating it using my personal account so I dont want my friends knowing about it! Although, as hopefulmama says, when it's a private group it doesn't appear anywhere, I already have one set up and is secret

mrsmax I also started thinking about the one more place to sign in and check msg... so not sure how it will work... and then, will this thread be abandoned? or just confusing where to post maybe that can be the VIP group

mmmm maybe it wasn't the best idea after all?... nose in the meantime... HOPEFULMAMA is your name

 

[Crumbs]

I woke-up spotting It came as a surprise because my temps haven't dipped massively, it's still within my post-o temps. Yesterday I woke-up an hour early and so there appears to be a dip at 36.61 but when I checked it an during my normal time (active temp) it was pretty high at 36.86 - I didn't record that temp, but it made me feel good regardless.

Today my temp was 36.67 and spotting. So weird because I normally have really painful cramps and I have no sign of it. Sigh.

I hope you ladies are having better luck!

 

[mrsmax]

Hi Crumbs - what do you think that means? It coudl be good news rather than bad.... f'xd!

My chart has really confused me today. Fertility friend has me o'd on 13th day, but it looks to me more like day 16? I have discarded two high temps as they were the weekend and I had drunk some wine and read that effects your temps. If I dont discrad them then F&F think I o'd at day 16. Can anyone help? (you canaccess my chart on my signature). Views very welcome.

We didnt bd much this month so I think I am out anyways, but still frustrating.

 

[pink80]

Could it be implantation spotting Crumbs??

 

[mrsmax]

That would be funny mrsmax - when I first joined this site I scanned to see if my sister was here! And I complained about another friend of mine but then worried that she might somehow be on here and read it..

In another thread I joined there were two girls that had gone to the same highschool at the same time but in different grades and they didn't know it..

SMFirst - I just realised you have you have your photo, so presumably anyone who knws you would recognise you anyways? I figure though if they are on this site they are in the same boat, so not so bad.

I did change my privacy settings though so only anyone who is a member can see my profile, that makes me feel a little better

 

[pink80]

My chart has really confused me today. Fertility friend has me o'd on 13th day, but it looks to me more like day 16? I have discarded two high temps as they were the weekend and I had drunk some wine and read that effects your temps. If I dont discrad them then F&F think I o'd at day 16. Can anyone help? (you canaccess my chart on my signature). Views very welcome.

Looking at your chart I would say you OV'd on CD16 - to be honest I never disregard temps on FF - even if I take them at a slightly different time or I've had alcohol - unless I'm ill and it's high due to a fever. I think FF is confused anyway which is why the crosshairs are dashed - it means it's not certain. I would put those temps back in if I were you xx