Not sorted it at all, we can't make a decision.
I'm so angry. We originally planned on gretna, but my brother and mum and sister (so that would mean all my neices and nephews couldnt go) and they said they wouldn't spend 30 in petrol to go.
We then decided edinburgh which is less than an hour drive 40 on train and it is 10 minute walk from the station ... once again ... thats too far for them. If they can't make the fucking effort to travel for less than an hour why do i even want them there at all? I explain well im paying for 3 course meal for everyone, drinks, a good night etc and having it there saves me like 1500 if not more instea dof having it in our town and they were like yeah but your guests are all gonna have to spend a tenner to get there and then pay to stay near it if they want to drink... i then said the train is close by and i know 4 people that do not drink so they can be designated drivers and car pool, still they think it is too much for them to do.
I know this sounds so immature of me it just really hurts that i'm the first to be getting married and not one member of my family can be bothered to make any effort.
It's not only that, but when OH parents said they want to contribute 500 to it my mum said in a huffy voice:
"oh well i guess that means im going to have to help too" and rolled her eyes.
Not only that, but they jsut seem to not be interested in anything to do with our day at all.