XKatX
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Anyone an expert?!
I just need someone I can PM really. I'm due to go back to work, but the hours there are bloody crazy. When I was there before, you'd start at say 7.30, then be due to finish at 5. Sometimes I wouldn't get out until gone 8. They just add cases (I work in a private hospital in theatres) without any warning. I could leave work on Friday knowing I had 4 cases on Saturday, so would be done by 2. Then I'd get in and there would suddenly be 6, so wouldn't finish until late afternoon/evening. Shifts are changed all the time and it's just a nightmare. I was fine about it when I didn't have a family and we barely coped when Oliver was small. But now I have the 2 of them, it just isn't going to work. My husbands job has changed since then and he can't just walk out if I'm stuck there. So I don't know where I stand with them. Can I ask for set days? Just days and no evenings? No weekends? I just don't know
I had a meeting with my manager last week and when I said roughly what I needed, she said that she can't be seen to be doing that, as it may upset the other staff! She then went on to say that if she did fulfill my requests, then I would have to give her something in return i.e working 1in3 Saturdays, so it didn't look like favoritism. Surely that's wrong?! How far can I push it while staying reasonable and making sure I get what is best for my family? I'm considering leaving, but I built that place up from scratch with my old manager (I was the project lead for the new theatre which raised the hospital from the ashes!), so don't want to go with out a fight.
Sorry for the ramble - can anyone help? (If you understood any of that!!)
I just need someone I can PM really. I'm due to go back to work, but the hours there are bloody crazy. When I was there before, you'd start at say 7.30, then be due to finish at 5. Sometimes I wouldn't get out until gone 8. They just add cases (I work in a private hospital in theatres) without any warning. I could leave work on Friday knowing I had 4 cases on Saturday, so would be done by 2. Then I'd get in and there would suddenly be 6, so wouldn't finish until late afternoon/evening. Shifts are changed all the time and it's just a nightmare. I was fine about it when I didn't have a family and we barely coped when Oliver was small. But now I have the 2 of them, it just isn't going to work. My husbands job has changed since then and he can't just walk out if I'm stuck there. So I don't know where I stand with them. Can I ask for set days? Just days and no evenings? No weekends? I just don't know
I had a meeting with my manager last week and when I said roughly what I needed, she said that she can't be seen to be doing that, as it may upset the other staff! She then went on to say that if she did fulfill my requests, then I would have to give her something in return i.e working 1in3 Saturdays, so it didn't look like favoritism. Surely that's wrong?! How far can I push it while staying reasonable and making sure I get what is best for my family? I'm considering leaving, but I built that place up from scratch with my old manager (I was the project lead for the new theatre which raised the hospital from the ashes!), so don't want to go with out a fight.
Sorry for the ramble - can anyone help? (If you understood any of that!!)