butterflies
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Well we saw the Fs on Wednesday and as he said, we've come to the end of the investigation road, the only significant "maybe" for why we can't concieve is "possibly" the antibodies in Dh's sperm. Other than that he can see no real reason and even he said he feels he is clutching at straws on that one.....
So the new road???? We've had more bloods taken and will go back to see him in a month after some reflection.....next step forward? IVF......
I honestly don't know how i feel about that, i truly don't, please don't get me wrong because i have been actively TTC since Aug 07 and really do want a child but i'm not sure i am ready for such a treatment
If we go forward with IVF, 1st attempt is free and waiting list is 6-8 months and any further attempts required after will be costing £3500......money which i don't have spare nor feel i personally could justify on potentially getting by baby....potentially because its not proven or guaranteed.
How do i feel??? Lost, a little scared and full of wonder and fear of what the future holds and just how long it may be before we realise out dream....
I was ok all while we we're being investigated, but now it all seems so final.....almost like its this (IVF) or nothing and i truly don't know how i feel.........
So the new road???? We've had more bloods taken and will go back to see him in a month after some reflection.....next step forward? IVF......
I honestly don't know how i feel about that, i truly don't, please don't get me wrong because i have been actively TTC since Aug 07 and really do want a child but i'm not sure i am ready for such a treatment
If we go forward with IVF, 1st attempt is free and waiting list is 6-8 months and any further attempts required after will be costing £3500......money which i don't have spare nor feel i personally could justify on potentially getting by baby....potentially because its not proven or guaranteed.
How do i feel??? Lost, a little scared and full of wonder and fear of what the future holds and just how long it may be before we realise out dream....
I was ok all while we we're being investigated, but now it all seems so final.....almost like its this (IVF) or nothing and i truly don't know how i feel.........