ive been taking stool softeners every day...honestly i dot even know how far back my episiotomy goes, if there were other tears, etc... those things werent really communicated to me... just that it took an entire suture kit to close up! and the nurse seemed pretty shocked at it lol. i didnt feel like i was straining to get it out... i am only 3 days after birth right now, i know i wont be comfortable yet lol.
i had considered hemmorroids but mine never bled that much. then again i never pushed a baby out for 4 hours either.