errrrg the nerve some women have!!!!!!

[tamithomas]

I had a pregnant friend tell me "you can't have everything in life, and being a mom might be something you won't have and have to start accepting it" than she started to tell me that theres hungry people in the world, there's people with terminal illnesses so my situation isn't that bad!! I was so shocked and broken hearted!! This is a friend who has a 9 month old baby and is 5 months pregnant!

I thought what a evil bitch!! How dare someone say theres bigger things going on in the world!! Than me craving just 1 baby! My husband got mobile phone and deleted this person. If someone pops out babies with out an issue they will NEVER understand our raw pain!! I was shaking in my skin when I heard her say stuff like that! It isn't the end of the world if your not a mom! But for me it is!!

wow I'm flabbergasted honestly. and i thought my friend was bad for calling me selfish and to get over myself because i got pissed at her for not warning me about her 3rd bfp? wow they will never understand.

 

[Cassandtina1]

I can't believe some of the stories u ladies r telling! Some women just really don't understand what we're going through!

 

[tamithomas]

My worst experience was not with a woman, but with a man.. my ex to be precise. When we were together, he was convinced he never wanted kids and I was willing to accept that at the time until he changed his mind near the end of our 3 year relationship saying I was the first to ever change his mind because he had full confidence in raising a kid with me. Then we broke up, he went back to his child hating ways. His next gf purposely stops her pill without him knowing and gets a BFP within 2 months. He gets pissed saying she's ruined his life because he wanted to go back to school. 9 months later, i go to visit them at the hospital..after all of his baby hate talk, he has the balls to ask me and my DH "so when are you gonna make one of these?" like really? i wanted to smack him across the head so hard but instead i gave him the "whenever it happens" answer. Made no sense and felt slightly hurt by it, a person who didn't even value being a father is suddenly rubbing it in peoples faces grrrrr.

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Just wanted to send some hugs I have two boys and 'wanted' a girl last time but I would never compare my want for a girl to being unable to concieve a child!! Thats beyond disgusting. I can totally see why you are upset sweetie. Huge hugs I hope you have a sticky bean very soon x

 

[Cassandtina1]

Hugs from me as well!

 

[Madgirl]

Wow ladies, these stories are just awful! I hope there are many BFPs in the future for all of us!

 

[Kimiw]

thank you all for your replies and hugs! I don't understand why some women are like that. It gets so hard to constantly turn the other cheeck because I feel like I am constantly being slapped lol. I am glad I am not the only one who has delt with these things, thank you all agian!