Everybody is pregnant except me!!

[Sash13]

Okay, not EVERYBODY ... but a lot of people. My sister-in-law, people on TV, friends, neighbours, colleagues ...

I want a baby so badly and it hurts that I am not pregnant anymore. My m/c was 3 weeks ago - and I was doing really well. Feeling good physically, feeling emotionally strong & stable, looking forward to my next pregnancy.

Today I am having a really tough day. I am sad all the time and wish that I was still pregnant. I miss my baby, miss the queasiness, miss the bloating, miss the fact that I can't share in this with my friends ...

I know that time heals all wounds and this will get better, but it's tough and I'm so sad.

 

[cleckner04]

I'm so sorry hun. I know how you feel. I wish there was a cure to make this all better but massive because that's the best I can do..

 

[Loo]

I am feeling EXACTLY the same as you! Its been a year sionce my mc and we have been trying ever since. No joy as yet. Everyone that I knew that was pregnant has now had their babies and I felt like it was more settling for me not to have that 'competition' if you know what I mean?

Then yesterday a friend tells me she is pregnant!! Arghhh. Unsettled all again. All the usual questions of 'why them and not me??' etc And then the guilt of not just being 100% happy for them. (Obviously I am happy for them, but that comes with a pain of my own loss)

So I know exactly how you are feeling. The only consolation is that I know from the last year's experience that this feeling will come and go and sometime soon I (and you) will feel stronger about things.

My thoughts are with you x

 

[princess_t]

Sorry for your loss hun i know how you feel. good luck for getting your bfp soon, xx

 

[NickyT75]

I know how you feel sweetheart

It really sucks doesn't it? x

 

[Sash13]

I'm not feeling much better this morning. I cried myself to sleep last night (waking hubby up in the process, oops!) but I just couldn't stop the tears from flowing.

Hopefully a day at work and an evening out will help.

 

[tillymum]

I know how you feel pregnant women and little babies everywhere,

 

[charliesmom]

Cry it out, hun. It's ok to feel this way. It's still so fresh. Time will help you to heal. When you can begin to try again, seeing pregnant people won't hurt as much.

 

[haaza123]

Hey, really know where your coming from. It really does gat you down, the worst parts are the significant dates such as scans, listening to the heartbeat, due date and etc. It does get abit better, beleive me, everyone on here always reminded me this, at first i didnt beleive them but now i do.

Sending you big and stay positive. There will be days when you will feel really down but talk to your patner about it. The worst thing i did was shut my hubs out, their there to support us and so are we here.

 

[Drazic<3]

Im so sorry your feeling like this, i can really understand what you mean and my heart goes out to you.

 

[LauriePK]

I'm sorry for you -- it's hard enough getting over it on your own, much less being surrounded by pregnant friends. I just spent the weekend on a retreat with 2 pregnant women and 1 who's husband just had a vasectomy because they have 3 kids, and that's enough for them! Ugh, I wish I was in that boat (well, 3 might be too many for me) -- but anyway, I know how it feels when it seems like everybody in the world's pregnant but you.

 

[Tracey2008]

Oh I am sorry to hear about your m/c and I also know how you feel. I had a m/c back in March and still not even a sniff of BFP since its really heartbreaking but our time will come again. Big hugs to you x