F.A.I.T.H. (Forsaking all, I trust Him)

[MommaWannabe]

Oh my goodness, I just got a !!! Holy moly, I cannot believe it. I'm working a 12 hour shift and am kinda kicking myself in the tush for not waiting to get home to test. I want to be able to get excited with my DH about it. I'm so glad I have you girls to share the news with though. I was going to pick up a test on my way home and test tonight, but the suspense was killing me. I was so sure AF was on her way (although a few days late)...I've had AF cramps, mood swings, tender BBs, etc... So I had one of the girls that works in the lab bring me a test. When I looked at the result I thought I was reading it wrong, so I had to bring her in to check it for me! Sure enough, she confirmed it was +++! Just to be sure, think I'm going to go get a test at the drug store on my dinner break. Am I crazy?

I am so sad to hear the came for so many of you. I am sure that God has his reasons for this month not being the month. I'm hoping to see lots of December s!!

Im_mi, I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. I had similar feelings in my first year of marriage. I'm telling ya girl, the only thing that changed my marriage was God and lots of prayer. It's amazing how God can make you see your spouse in a whole different light, especially if you ask Him. You will be in my prayers and I hope God can change your heart.

To those of you that haven't tested yet, my thoughts are with you!!

 

[somedaymama]

mommawannabe, congratulations!!! yay! you're going to have a baby! I am soooo happy for you!

to all of us who have been dissapointed by yet another , I am sorry. but "Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the LORD." Psalm 1:24

Though I have not yet had , I can sympathize...I am on CD 39 and according to my temps, no ovulation yet. I am thinking that it is likely I won't ovulate at all.

Dipar_Butt3, I didn't see your other thread, but I too am TTC after depo. My last shot was over a year and a half ago, but I think it is what has messed me up so much. I had very regular cycles before I started it.

and I just have to say it again...yay MommaWannabe!!!! yay for your !

 

[Dipar_Butt3]

mommawannabe, congratulations!!! yay! you're going to have a baby! I am soooo happy for you!

to all of us who have been dissapointed by yet another , I am sorry. but "Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the LORD." Psalm 1:24

Though I have not yet had , I can sympathize...I am on CD 39 and according to my temps, no ovulation yet. I am thinking that it is likely I won't ovulate at all.

Dipar_Butt3, I didn't see your other thread, but I too am TTC after depo. My last shot was over a year and a half ago, but I think it is what has messed me up so much. I had very regular cycles before I started it.

and I just have to say it again...yay MommaWannabe!!!! yay for your !

Somedaymama,

Yes Depo really messed me up and I think if i never got that shot. I would of had my baby by now. Yes i took it back in 2006 and i never went for the 2nd shot because of the side effect it was giving me then. Joint pain and also no period for 11 full months after.

Yaa our first bfp in this group and you know what? MommaWannabe wasn't trying to rub it in our faces like some people on bnb. Monday i'm going to the Ob and see what's going on. I wanted to go to the ER to see what they will tell me but then i said nah..I didn't want to wait that long. So i'll wait until Monday

 

[Rdy2BaMom]

CONGRATS MommaWannaBe! I am so excited for you!

 

[jiboo44]

Crazy but.... guess who made an appearance today?



Well, weird weird weird but it goes to show that symptoms or no symptoms, only God knows when the right time will be.

Congrats to you MommaWannabe!!! Very happy for you and to the rest of us, I look forward to hearing your BFP stories sometime soon!!

 

[Guppy051708]

Sorry about the jiboo I know that Lord has something great for you though!

MommaWannaBe- Congratulations!! Have a H&H 9 months dear!

Well girls, I have NO idea what is going on with my BBT! I figured todays temps would shed some light on it, but i guess i will have to find out tommorow. IDK, but i am breaking out like crazy! eww. Dont know if its bc AF will be here in about 5 days or what, but i feel like ive been pretty bad with breaking out for the last week, and i usually never break out...maybe my hormones are just nuts from the miscarriage? Hopefully they settle down soon if thats the case! LOL

 

[Momof2kiddos]

Oh my goodness, I just got a !!! Holy moly, I cannot believe it. I'm working a 12 hour shift and am kinda kicking myself in the tush for not waiting to get home to test. I want to be able to get excited with my DH about it. I'm so glad I have you girls to share the news with though. I was going to pick up a test on my way home and test tonight, but the suspense was killing me. I was so sure AF was on her way (although a few days late)...I've had AF cramps, mood swings, tender BBs, etc... So I had one of the girls that works in the lab bring me a test. When I looked at the result I thought I was reading it wrong, so I had to bring her in to check it for me! Sure enough, she confirmed it was +++! Just to be sure, think I'm going to go get a test at the drug store on my dinner break. Am I crazy?

I am so sad to hear the came for so many of you. I am sure that God has his reasons for this month not being the month. I'm hoping to see lots of December s!!

Im_mi, I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. I had similar feelings in my first year of marriage. I'm telling ya girl, the only thing that changed my marriage was God and lots of prayer. It's amazing how God can make you see your spouse in a whole different light, especially if you ask Him. You will be in my prayers and I hope God can change your heart.

To those of you that haven't tested yet, my thoughts are with you!!

YAYAYAYAYYAYAYAY!!!!!!!! congrats on your Little one!!! you must be thrilled!!!!

sorry to hear about the for some of you i cant imagine how you must be feeling, i will continue to pray for you ladies.

and to those who havent tested, lots of prayers and

 

[somedaymama]

Somedaymama,

Yes Depo really messed me up and I think if i never got that shot. I would of had my baby by now. Yes i took it back in 2006 and i never went for the 2nd shot because of the side effect it was giving me then. Joint pain and also no period for 11 full months after.

Yaa our first bfp in this group and you know what? MommaWannabe wasn't trying to rub it in our faces like some people on bnb. Monday i'm going to the Ob and see what's going on. I wanted to go to the ER to see what they will tell me but then i said nah..I didn't want to wait that long. So i'll wait until Monday

I feel the same way...it is so frustrating, and I feel so bad that something I did is probably what is keeping me from having my baby.

I was on it for one year, four shots all together. The only side effect I had was constant light bleeding, that was annoying but bearable. I didn't gain any weight like some people do.

I have an appointment with a reproductive endocrinologist in January, so I will finally get to find out what is going on. I suspect my estrogen is low.

 

[Virginia]

IDK, but i am breaking out like crazy! eww. Dont know if its bc AF will be here in about 5 days or what, but i feel like ive been pretty bad with breaking out for the last week, and i usually never break out...maybe my hormones are just nuts from the miscarriage? Hopefully they settle down soon if thats the case! LOL

I've been breaking out like crazy too...It started when I was about 4 weeks pregnant, and even since my MC November 2nd I have continued to break out. Hopefully it goes away soon (I don't mind so much if I have a bean causing it though lol.)

 

[MommaWannabe]

Monday i'm going to the Ob and see what's going on. I wanted to go to the ER to see what they will tell me but then i said nah..I didn't want to wait that long. So i'll wait until Monday

Yes, good idea! I work in an ER and I don't know if it's the same by you as it is here (although I'm guessing it is), but you probably won't get too many answers from an ER doc. I can't even tell you how many women with OB issues are checked briefly (only really for emergency conditions) and then referred to their own OB doctor, really getting no answers from us. Your best bet is definitely to call your ob tomorrow. I hope it all works out and you get the answers you need. Please keep us posted!!

 

[MommaWannabe]

IDK, but i am breaking out like crazy! eww. Dont know if its bc AF will be here in about 5 days or what, but i feel like ive been pretty bad with breaking out for the last week, and i usually never break out...maybe my hormones are just nuts from the miscarriage? Hopefully they settle down soon if thats the case! LOL

I've been breaking out like crazy too...It started when I was about 4 weeks pregnant, and even since my MC November 2nd I have continued to break out. Hopefully it goes away soon (I don't mind so much if I have a bean causing it though lol.)

Girls, I have been breaking out too! And now I'm bfp; maybe that means promising news for you!!!! I agree Virginia...as long as the acne is caused by a little bean, then who cares, right?!

 

[im_mi]

OMGoodness, congrats mommawannabe!!! i am so happy for you!!!

Commiserations to everyone who got a visit from the wicked

and thank you all so much for your support and kindness i am feeling a lot better today. i have been blessed with a wonderful husband and i am determined to make it work between us. i need to change MY life so i am fulfilled, rather than expecting DH to be someone he isnt. ill keep praying. and thank you for the book recommendation rascal, i shall definitely check it out!

 

[Guppy051708]

So glad youre feeling better im_mi! I will keep praying for you and your husband

 

[somedaymama]

and thank you all so much for your support and kindness i am feeling a lot better today. i have been blessed with a wonderful husband and i am determined to make it work between us. i need to change MY life so i am fulfilled, rather than expecting DH to be someone he isnt. ill keep praying.

That is a terrific attitude to have! When we were in pre-marriage counseling, the pastor told us something very interesting that has definitely helped shape our marriage: we should never say "you make me feel <something negative>" because we are all responsible for our own feelings. Sure, it's no fun when they are critical or whatever, but only we can let ourselves feel certain ways. Taking control of your own emotions and feelings is a great step toward contentment. I'm no marriage expert by any means, but I know I am happier when I let him be who he is and love him for it. I'll be praying for you and your husband.

I have a prayer request that is totally unrelated to babymaking. I am working on a mathematical economics test all day today and I am having a very hard time with it. Last time the test took me almost 14 hours, if that gives a clue how difficult it is. So far this one is worse... Anyway, if you could just pray that I would understand and comprehend as I work, I would appreciate it.

 

[mrskcbrown]

IDK, but i am breaking out like crazy! eww. Dont know if its bc AF will be here in about 5 days or what, but i feel like ive been pretty bad with breaking out for the last week, and i usually never break out...maybe my hormones are just nuts from the miscarriage? Hopefully they settle down soon if thats the case! LOL

I've been breaking out like crazy too...It started when I was about 4 weeks pregnant, and even since my MC November 2nd I have continued to break out. Hopefully it goes away soon (I don't mind so much if I have a bean causing it though lol.)

Girls, I have been breaking out too! And now I'm bfp; maybe that means promising news for you!!!! I agree Virginia...as long as the acne is caused by a little bean, then who cares, right?!

Congratulations! I was hoping someone got a BFP! I hope to see more next month but I am so excited for you. Congrats and I hope its a sticky sticky bean!!!!

 

[MommaWannabe]

im_mi, I'm so happy to hear you're doing better. And it really sounds like you have the right attitude! Way to go, girl! You and your DH will remain in my prayers.

 

[Guppy051708]

Yay!!! The got me! !!!!
I have never been happier to see AF! Now i can officially change my status from WTT to TTC!!!! Ahh, my sweet baby, you will be with me soon!!! =] Praise Jesus! That He is a GREAT God!!!

 

[somedaymama]

Yay!!! The got me! !!!!
I have never been happier to see AF! Now i can officially change my status from WTT to TTC!!!! Ahh, my sweet baby, you will be with me soon!!! =] Praise Jesus! That He is a GREAT God!!!

Yay! My first period after my m/c was such a relief. lots and lots of to you!

 

[Guppy051708]

Thanks so much SomedayMama!

Do you think a 10 day LP is okay? Ive read that most docs say its acceptable but that some docs dont like to see a LP shorter than 12 days

 

[somedaymama]

Do you think a 10 day LP is okay? Ive read that most docs say its acceptable but that some docs dont like to see a LP shorter than 12 days

I have read as long as it is 10 days it is okay, but would it hurt to do the vitamin B thing to try to lengethen it a little?