F.A.I.T.H. (Forsaking all, I trust Him)

[Aster]

Wow! Such a lot in 24 hours!!

Sadly Immi I am at work and not snowed in (with hubby as the boss, he can be a bit of a slave driver! ) So i didn't have anytime off for snow!
We have a 4WD truck (handy to deliver beer or cope with the snow!) so that has been fine in the snow.

Willy - I am soooooo excited!! I just know that this is going to be it.... I can't wait. I have prayed for you the last few nights, do let us know. xxxx
That musical sounds like so muich fun, well done you. xx

Guppy - Sweetie, congrats to you for having a lovely healthy baby bean! not so good on you not standing up for yourself.... do you want me to come over there and sort her out... As an ex nurse (ok so I was a kids nurse but still!) we have to take oaths and stuff about compassion, sensitivity etc! She treated you in a horrible manner and i would have complained about her. I have been spoken to a couple of times rudely by someone and have confronted them with the truth. Sometimes you have to just say it like it is to make them realise how their actions are making you feel. I had some tests done a while ago (on my kidneys) and was really scared. The nurse was reeeeallly horrible and rough with me and I just turned to her and said. ' Please be careful with me, I am really scared. I know that you do alot of these procedures everyday but I don't and I am really struggling when I don't know what the matter is and am terrified of the outcome of this scan.'
It worked a treat, she looked horrified and explained wheat she was doing at every stage. Sometimes nurses forget with all the stress of their days and need to be kept in check to remember thier caring bedside manner. We are all human and have bad days (I had some awful days in special care baby unit)but you must not take that out on your patients or their relatives.
OK, lecture over. But make sure you ask at your next appt for a scan, if you dont ask you dont get and relay to the Doc that you haven't even heard the babies heartbeat. Sadly I worked in fetal medicine so I mostly dealt with the bad news and problems but there is no professional satisfaction greater than seeing the joy on a new mothers face when they hear a heatbeat, so just ask the doc! lol xxxxxx

Gosh that was long, sorry!

Someday - at your nephew - kids say the funniest things eh?!

hows everyone else doing? I have waffled on enough so going to dash and actually do some work!!

xxx

 

[mrskcbrown]

Goodmorning all! Today all the schools in my area are closed except the city schools and of course that is where I work, LOL. Hope is all going well for you ladies!

WillyNilly: I hope you get that long awaited BFP!!!!

Another small nosebleed for me this morning. I dont know if it means anything and my bb's started hurting last week, when they usually only hurt a few days prior to AF, which is due next week. Oh well, my hopes are up but Im not worried about symptom spotting. I just cant get caught up in it this month.

 

[Willynilly]

got a bfn this am at 14 dpo. I broke down and tested b/c my temp didn't drop this am...and I thought it would be better to have the result today so I could get any possible tears out (instead of on my bday). but I really thought I was...all the symptoms - and I just felt like I was. I kept waiting for that second line - b/c I KNEW it would be there. that's the worst. dh is shocked too. he wants me to go to an re b/c of all my symptoms and then nothing happened. now I am worried that something is wrong with me. can't go to re anytime soon as I'm out of state. and I'm really just not in the mood for it either.

sorry but I may stay away from bnb for a few days b/c I just don't know what positive things I could offer to you all. thanks for your support - but I am ripped apart today.

 

[mrskcbrown]

got a bfn this am at 14 dpo. I broke down and tested b/c my temp didn't drop this am...and I thought it would be better to have the result today so I could get any possible tears out (instead of on my bday). but I really thought I was...all the symptoms - and I just felt like I was. I kept waiting for that second line - b/c I KNEW it would be there. that's the worst. dh is shocked too. he wants me to go to an re b/c of all my symptoms and then nothing happened. now I am worried that something is wrong with me. can't go to re anytime soon as I'm out of state. and I'm really just not in the mood for it either.

sorry but I may stay away from bnb for a few days b/c I just don't know what positive things I could offer to you all. thanks for your support - but I am ripped apart today.

Awwhhh sorry to hear this. I definitely understand your need to stay away from BNB to regain yourself. I too did that last month. Seeing a RE is a great idea because they will be able to test you and DH and get to the bottom of the real issue. I know going right now isnt what you are up for but I would at least call and get the appointment because sometimes they have long waiting periods and are booked. Im praying for you, take some time, heal, enjoy your birthday, and have fun.

 

[somedaymama]

So sorry Willnilly.

 

[Aster]

Awww Willy I am so sorry.
Sending you huge hugs and love, darling. Take some time off BnB and make sure you get a large bottle of champagne and celebrate your birthday tomorrow. xxxx
Take care of yourself and make sure hubby does too. Praying for you xxxxx

 

[Sayuri]

Oh Willynilly

I am soooooo sorry so so sorry I thought this was the time for you, I understand that you will take some time out I am gonna say a special prayer for you

 

[pigginteacher]

Hi Ladies,
So happy to have found this forum, it's good for women to support each other through prayer. Willy nilly sorry to hear bout your BFN, I know what thats like and completely understand why u need some time out. Will remember u in my prayers.
Well ladies please think of me in your prayers next thursday as i am due an early scan to check that pregnancy is not ectopic. I really believe this baby is a miracle so trying to stay strong and trust God but sometimes it's hard so it would be good to know that i have support from others through this.
Thanks again
Hope all goes well for the rest of you
Many Blessings x

 

[somedaymama]

welcome, pigginteacher! Congrats on your recent BFP! Do they have reason to think your pregnancy is ectopic? I'll be praying for you.

 

[mrskcbrown]

Hi Ladies,
So happy to have found this forum, it's good for women to support each other through prayer. Willy nilly sorry to hear bout your BFN, I know what thats like and completely understand why u need some time out. Will remember u in my prayers.
Well ladies please think of me in your prayers next thursday as i am due an early scan to check that pregnancy is not ectopic. I really believe this baby is a miracle so trying to stay strong and trust God but sometimes it's hard so it would be good to know that i have support from others through this.
Thanks again
Hope all goes well for the rest of you
Many Blessings x

Welcome and we are happy to have you! I will pray that you are not having an ectopic pregnancy but a full term baby! Congrats on your BFP!

 

[Sayuri]

Welcome pigginteacher! I will pray that your pregnancy is happy and healthy xx is this your first?

 

[Rdy2BaMom]

Hi ladies, just have time to post really quick. I have a prayer request. My FIL's psa levels with his prostate cancer has tripled since his biopsy just 8 weeks ago. They are thinking that the biopsy disturbed the cancer cells and now they have spread. He is at MD Anderson in Houston right now and they are re-running the tests and the scans. Please be praying for him! We are all pretty worried and stressing more than we should. Thanks in advance! Love y'all!

 

[mrskcbrown]

Hi ladies, just have time to post really quick. I have a prayer request. My FIL's psa levels with his prostate cancer has tripled since his biopsy just 8 weeks ago. They are thinking that the biopsy disturbed the cancer cells and now they have spread. He is at MD Anderson in Houston right now and they are re-running the tests and the scans. Please be praying for him! We are all pretty worried and stressing more than we should. Thanks in advance! Love y'all!

Yes I am praying for your father in law. I hope that all is well but we know that God is a healer!!! Im praying that God does what He does best and thats bless. Im praying!

 

[somedaymama]

praying for your FIL, Rdy2. hang in there.

 

[Guppy051708]

got a bfn this am at 14 dpo. I broke down and tested b/c my temp didn't drop this am...and I thought it would be better to have the result today so I could get any possible tears out (instead of on my bday). but I really thought I was...all the symptoms - and I just felt like I was. I kept waiting for that second line - b/c I KNEW it would be there. that's the worst. dh is shocked too. he wants me to go to an re b/c of all my symptoms and then nothing happened. now I am worried that something is wrong with me. can't go to re anytime soon as I'm out of state. and I'm really just not in the mood for it either.

sorry but I may stay away from bnb for a few days b/c I just don't know what positive things I could offer to you all. thanks for your support - but I am ripped apart today.

I understand dear. BUT it could just be too early! I didn't get even a super duper light, faint positive until 12 DPO and i only have a 10-11 day luteal phase. This isn't over until the shows her ugly face. Treat yourself like you are pregnant because you still could be, especially if your temp is still high!!!!!!

 

[MrsEngland]

Hi ladies, just a real quick prayer request, i have my scan for PCO tomorrow and i'm super nervous so if you get chance send one up for me!

Thanks x

 

[somedaymama]

I just found out my initial visit with my RE is $300. ouch. I knew it would be a lot, but I was really hoping my insurance would cover some...they don't. At least my DH's copay is only $20! His insurance is MUCH better than mine.

 

[Guppy051708]

Can you get added to your DH's insurance instead?

 

[somedaymama]

I'm going to have to check into it. My husband's insurance is really cheap for him (like $8/month) but to have me on it would be like $400/month. My current insurance is only about $50/month (student insurance through my school). It will probably be cheaper in the long run to just pay out of pocket for the tests than for me to switch insurances. We aren't planning to do anything major like IVF at this point in our lives anyway, so I can't imagine that the costs at the RE would add up to more than what we would have paid for a few months on his insurance.

It was just a bit of sticker shock to hear how much I have to pay for my initial consultation!

 

[J_K_L]

After taking my test that came up with an EXTREMELY faint line last Saturday on Sunday morning I took another test with FMU and NOTHING. That's when I finally when out and got the Pregnant/ Not Pregnant Digital. Got the pregnant result in the late morning. And by the last day I was 16DPO.

What test are you using?

got a bfn this am at 14 dpo. I broke down and tested b/c my temp didn't drop this am...and I thought it would be better to have the result today so I could get any possible tears out (instead of on my bday). but I really thought I was...all the symptoms - and I just felt like I was. I kept waiting for that second line - b/c I KNEW it would be there. that's the worst. dh is shocked too. he wants me to go to an re b/c of all my symptoms and then nothing happened. now I am worried that something is wrong with me. can't go to re anytime soon as I'm out of state. and I'm really just not in the mood for it either.

sorry but I may stay away from bnb for a few days b/c I just don't know what positive things I could offer to you all. thanks for your support - but I am ripped apart today.