So i'll start by saying I'm a mum of a 4 year old surprise baby, I have PCOS and 'am' now 9 weeks pregnant with a baby we spent almost 3 years trying for...
I remember I had bleeding at 11 weeks with my daughter and all was absolutely fine, but I had spotting about 2 weeks ago (and took a pregnancy test after it had stopped, which was still positive) and had my first midwife appointment on Weds.. I had spotting from Weds night, spotting all day yesterday (only a tiny bit of brown) and today woke up cramping. and now I'm bleeding too, I've passed a couple of small clots and a lot that looked like mud almost (tmi, sorry) it's still mostly dark brown and the clots are almost black but every now and then, and mostly when i wipe, i get some watery red blood..
anything on the pad is brown, but I've gone through 3 pads today..
suffice to say I'm about 99% sure I'm miscarrying and I'm devastated I have an early scan booked for Tuesday but again...pretty sure it's over.
I've always wanted more children, but after the 3 years trying, the pure joy at being pregnant and now losing it, I don't know if I can go through it again
How do you...move on from it? Like, I've told my daughter...but how do I explain it to a 4 year old? and how do I get past the fear of it happening again to try again?
Just don't know what to do
I remember I had bleeding at 11 weeks with my daughter and all was absolutely fine, but I had spotting about 2 weeks ago (and took a pregnancy test after it had stopped, which was still positive) and had my first midwife appointment on Weds.. I had spotting from Weds night, spotting all day yesterday (only a tiny bit of brown) and today woke up cramping. and now I'm bleeding too, I've passed a couple of small clots and a lot that looked like mud almost (tmi, sorry) it's still mostly dark brown and the clots are almost black but every now and then, and mostly when i wipe, i get some watery red blood..
anything on the pad is brown, but I've gone through 3 pads today..
suffice to say I'm about 99% sure I'm miscarrying and I'm devastated I have an early scan booked for Tuesday but again...pretty sure it's over.
I've always wanted more children, but after the 3 years trying, the pure joy at being pregnant and now losing it, I don't know if I can go through it again
How do you...move on from it? Like, I've told my daughter...but how do I explain it to a 4 year old? and how do I get past the fear of it happening again to try again?
Just don't know what to do