TattooedMama
Bubba, Daddy & Belly
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So my dad is a hardass, always has been. He treats me like I'm a frickin idiot and don't know anything about life when I'll be 24 this year, about to have my second child and on my second marriage. My first marriage ended terribly, it was a big mess and I needed help-he doesnt want me to go through that again, I get it.
Now my dad calls today & he's supposed to be co-signing for a car for us(he offered/insisted when he found out we went to a bad credit place & were ganna sign a terrible deal). Well my hubby & I were fighting this morning so when my dad called I said I wasnt having a good day...he asked why and I know he hates listening to BS like that so I said dont worry about it but he asked again. I told him my hubby has PTSD and a bad temper, we had a huge fight and he put a hole in the wall. My dad begins cussing me out telling me what a fucking moron I am, how I married another psycho loser & now I'm stuck and that I'm waiting to give birth to his child..... he went on about how I should have just took off with my son when I had the chance and now I ruined my life. I'm so sick of dealing with him, I HAVE to talk to him because hes supposed to help us get a car & right now we have none thanks to his advice. Yes hubby and I fought, it was bad & he lost his temper terribly but WTF?! My dad has his own temper from hell, used to hit my mom when he was younger...I remember it as a kid. I know I'm his daughter but my hubby doesnt hit me or my son so i dont see where he gets off being so judgmental. Of course none of this makes me feel good at 9mos pregnant on top of my already shitty last 2wks. To top it all off now my dad is saying he shouldnt come visit after the baby is born because he will probably just beat up my husband
Now my dad calls today & he's supposed to be co-signing for a car for us(he offered/insisted when he found out we went to a bad credit place & were ganna sign a terrible deal). Well my hubby & I were fighting this morning so when my dad called I said I wasnt having a good day...he asked why and I know he hates listening to BS like that so I said dont worry about it but he asked again. I told him my hubby has PTSD and a bad temper, we had a huge fight and he put a hole in the wall. My dad begins cussing me out telling me what a fucking moron I am, how I married another psycho loser & now I'm stuck and that I'm waiting to give birth to his child..... he went on about how I should have just took off with my son when I had the chance and now I ruined my life. I'm so sick of dealing with him, I HAVE to talk to him because hes supposed to help us get a car & right now we have none thanks to his advice. Yes hubby and I fought, it was bad & he lost his temper terribly but WTF?! My dad has his own temper from hell, used to hit my mom when he was younger...I remember it as a kid. I know I'm his daughter but my hubby doesnt hit me or my son so i dont see where he gets off being so judgmental. Of course none of this makes me feel good at 9mos pregnant on top of my already shitty last 2wks. To top it all off now my dad is saying he shouldnt come visit after the baby is born because he will probably just beat up my husband