LynAnne
Mum to 2 Boys
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Now that DH and I are married (in August), I've noticed that certain family members have been hinting at when we'll start our family - my MIL being particularly obvious about it. First she said, "who would have thought this time last year you'd be married. Who knows what will happen next year". We'd been engaged for three years before we got married but only planned our wedding for six months. And then recently while taking care of our nephews she was talking about how I'll need to get DH to stop freaking out over dirty nappies and sick There's been lots of little hints and although no one has come out with "so when you having kids?" it's very much implied! I feel like screaming: have a chat with your son. We'll be having them whenever your son decides he wants them!
Whilst it makes me happy to know that other family members would like to see us start our little family it also kind of hurts. It seems like everyone but DH wants us to have children right now which feels horrible. Sometimes I catch myself thinking, "why don't you want to start our family? Is it me?" and then I feel immediately bad about it. I know he does but he just isn't ready yet. Ugh!
Does anyone else have family asking about when you'll have babies?
Whilst it makes me happy to know that other family members would like to see us start our little family it also kind of hurts. It seems like everyone but DH wants us to have children right now which feels horrible. Sometimes I catch myself thinking, "why don't you want to start our family? Is it me?" and then I feel immediately bad about it. I know he does but he just isn't ready yet. Ugh!
Does anyone else have family asking about when you'll have babies?