fat or is it a baby bump

[Becci_Boo86]

its very true u can post where ever u like it is a public forum but i think people should think before they type. think of peoples feelings. you might not know them as all u see is a screen but there is someone on the other side who can get upset!

and yes i am looking out for soccer124! i feel for her and i want to make sure she gets the help she needs. if i didnt i wouldnt be on here sticking up for her from some of the comments that have been put on here!!!

 

[Charliemarina]

I hate to doubt people too, but come on. This all sounds very fishy. She thinks she's 3/4 months pregnant and hasn't even seen a doctor yet?

we are not here to judge we are here to support, there is nothing fishy about being confused and scared and she is now going to see a doc which in my eyes is better than not ever seeing a doc some people just never believe they could be preg like i did and i never took folic acid with first preg or even tested coz of doubt and fear so pls support her dont make her feel like crap

also soccer hunny just coz u didnt take folic acid if you are indeed preg it doesnt mean ur baby will be sick its just a precaution to prevent some things my son was born without me taking this and he is a healthy 9 year old child xxxxx

 

[Becci_Boo86]

i can tell u now she isnt making this up!! i have seen more pics!!! i think unless ur in her situation dont judge!! she is scared! you dont know whats happened in the past for this girl!! dont judge unless u know everything thats just plain EVIL!!!

 

[CarlyDee]

She's had all these people tell her that she looks pregnant, she's had positive pregnancy tests, she's supposedly had nurses feel her belly and say there's definitely something in there. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just saying that my instincts say something's up. Flame me all you want (I expect it, come on, it's the internet.) but none of this sits right for me.

The point being, OP, if you're serious, go see a doctor, don't wait until Friday, go now. There's walk in clinics. Get off the internet, we can't tell you if you're pregnant. Only a doctor can. Go to a doctor.

 

[CarlyDee]

I'm not judging, Jesus. All I said was this doesn't sound right at all. Could she be serious? Of course. I'm open to that possibility. I just don't know why we're all sitting here telling her "Oh you might be." When we should be telling her, "Uh, drive yourself to a doctor right now."

 

[hayley1982]

I think only a scanner can really tell her whats going on if she is 3/4months gone really.feeling tummies mean nothing either even at this stage if she is pg

 

[hayley1982]

Well i think youd only be able to feel utro slightly enlarged at 3months.am i right?i wouldnt really know at as that stage i was measuring 26wks

 

[Charliemarina]

I think only a scanner can really tell her whats going on if she is 3/4months gone really.feeling tummies mean nothing either even at this stage if she is pg

i agree and like is said earlier a scan will not miss a baby at this stage for sure.

soccer hun get to a doc or even a scan centre and pay for one, its the only ay to truly find out and blood tests if ur doc agrees to them

 

[confused27]

carly i think u need to consider the fact that maybe shes just scared, shes a young girl and shes confused, she should have went to docs at the time but she didnt shes doing the right thing now and has an appointment for friday, leave her alone, she may or may not be pregnant but she has come on here looking for advise not for us all to jump down her throat about it, this is a friendly site and for anyone new to be here today they would think twice about asking anything.

 

[hayley1982]

Id skip a doc personally.because most if they dont see a pos test done infront of them they wont do bloods or scan.i pay for a scan to put mind at rest to know whats going on

 

[CarlyDee]

If you're too scared to go to the doctor to find out if you're pregnant, maybe you aren't ready for a kid. How are you all sitting around pretending this is okay? She's even watching this thread right now and she's not even saying anything.

I'm not trying to be mean here, you need to understand that. I'd just like her to come forward and explain.

Look, you said you were confused? A quick doctor's appointment will alleviate a lot of that confusion. I'm not being mean. I'm actually a pretty nice person. But when someone has been getting positive pregnancy tests for 3 months and has yet to see a doctor, (or a midwife, whatever you choose) something isn't right.

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[Soccer124]

pics of my belly taken today
belly not sucked in
https://img412.imageshack.us/img412/4220/imag0229m.jpg

belly sucked in
https://img528.imageshack.us/img528/6251/imag0228g.jpg
https://img179.imageshack.us/img179/3953/imag0227.jpg

 

[andella95]

Quite frankly, this is the pregnancy test section, and that is what should be posted here, NOT pictures of someone's stomach! YES it is irresponsible to think you are pregnant - possibly 3 or 4 months, and be asking strangers online if you look pregnant instead of getting yourself into a doctor.

I don't come to this section to look at someone's stomach. It is impossible to tell if someone is pregnant based on a belly pic. It's not right for anyone to say that she is or isn't based on that.

Being 23 and never been pregnant or being scared isn't an excuse for not getting a proper diagnosis. I wish you well, but please, take more responsibility for the possible baby inside of you.

A pregnancy test will not go negative after a certain time - the HCG levels do drop, but are still very high.

And your pics didn't look positive, they looked like evaps.

 

[AndreaFlorida]

Your HCG can go so high as to not show up on a urine pregnancy test....Ive seen it happen before....

 

[Vickie]

We have asked over and over again if you have any concerns to please contact a member of the team. To question people on threads like this and imply that they are lying is very hurtful!

If you have nothing supportive to say on this thread (which I am moving to a more appropriate section) than please leave it be.

 

[AndreaFlorida]

Yep you've definitely gotten a bigger belly since last pic! Goodluck sweetie and can't wait for the doctors on Friday to tell ya whats going on...keep us posted! Ignore all the negative comments...you haven't said whether or not your taking a prenatal or not so who are they to judge! Just my opinion....FX sweetheart!

 

[Becci_Boo86]

i think this is getting way out of control! she only asked for advise and people are being so nasty! People who join a baby forum want a baby! maybe soccer124 joined for help cos she dosnt know what to do and her posting this thread was the way for her to ask for abit of advise. yea maybe she could have gone to the doctors sooner. but at the end of the day she has got an appointment on friday and she has come here to ask us ladies for help! i think we should be giving her help so being nasty! people have different lives and do things differently! i hope you ok Soccer124 and not to upset hun xxx

 

[CarlyDee]

aAll right, can't take it. Gonna leave this forum, (because there's much better ones out there) so I can say what I want now. There's a bunch of whiny people here. "Oh wahhhh, you had a suspicion someone was lying and you said something, you're gonna hurt someone's feelingggsss." She's an idiot, and I know you're all thinking it. It's quite obvious she's either:

A) Trolling
B) Pretending she's pregnant because she's fat
C) ********

It's also quite obvious she's not ready for a kid. Look in the background of her pictures. Her house is an absolute wreck.

Have fun interacting with idiots.

P.S. If you type like a 9 year old, I can't take you serious. This goes for multiple people in this thread. Dumbasses.

 

[Dukechick]

delete

 

[babyanise]

just wishing you good luck for fri.