Fed up.

[fairygirl]

I'm so fed up of being home alone. Don't get me wrong I'm chuffed to bits that OH has got himself a nice job and getting his wage as well has made things and plans for ttc a whole lot easier. BUT, he works shifts, I've seen him for about 4 hours this weekend and probably about 10 altogether since Weds. It's his day off tomorrow and he is being taken out drinking which means another night alone. Then we'll have Tues night and after that he has 9 shifts in a row due to booking a weekend off for his birthday. I work long hours too and go out the door as he gets in. He's my best friend and I don't really have anyone around apart from family that I can just hang out with. I find friends really hard to make and will try to make more of an effort with the 'wags' of his friends, but I don't really do girlie. When I lived away during uni and after I had so many friends, and a Friday night in the pub was normal, now rare indeed. Money is tied up too and is my normal excuse for not socialising. Facebook is my only contact at the min.

Sorry, I'm feeling rather sorry for myself. I sound like a real loner huh.

 

[fuffyburra]

I wish I could think 'pfft, what a loner!' but I know exactly what you mean!! My OH is my best friend but he works A LOT, and I usually make excuses for not going out with friends because they're all at uni and want to go out drinking EVERY SINGLE night. I'm not really that in to it, it's crap and boring nowadays! lol. I have 1 or 2 friends I see fairly regularly that enjoy the same stuff as me, but usually I end up hanging around with my mum if OH isn't there XD Now I'M the sad one!!
Sorry you're feeling fed up, you'll always have us girls if that's any consolation
xx

 

[wannabubba#4]

Sorrry to hear you are feeling down.

Yeah working shifts really do suck -I work shifts at the mo' and DH doesn't, but a few years ago we both did shifts and we were really like the proverbial ships that pass in the night.
You just need to make sure the time you do spend together is extra special.

Hope you are feeling better soon, take care
xx