Just back from my 20 week scan to discover we are having a boy. Desperately wanted a girl. Feel absolutely terrible because I know we are blessed to be having a healthy baby and there are so many desperate couples out there trying for children with no luck. I keep reminding myself I should be thankful everything's ok but feel like I have lost my girl Had girl names sorted, looking forward to buying girls things... I feel terrible that I am not excited like what I feel I should be. Sorry to rant on just wanted to share my feelings with people I know I can confide in. Is it ok to feel like this? Now I'm worried I won't bond with the baby?