Feel like giving up....

[wannabemummyb]

.....I am 30 days "late" and got a bfn again today. We have been trying for 18 months and still no bfp.
I have pcos and didn't have a period for nearly a year, but feb, march, April and may was regular ish, almost a 28 day cycle, then due on end if may and nothing.

I just find it so unfair that it is this hard, I never expected to have to go through all of this to get pg. I'm a nice Person and everyone who knows me thinks I would make a good mum but I just can't get that bfp!

Df was being a total ass this morning, snappy, grumpy and just downright rude, so I didn't even bother to tell him I'd tested and it was bfn again! Balled my eyes out though, and I'm not a crier!

I am truly thinking about giving up and going back to ntnp because actively ttc is not working for me! I have my next fs appointment in sept, so not going to try till then and see what they say this time! Blah

Sorry ladies rant over!

 

[Lily7]

Hey Hun, go to your doctors and ask them for provera, thats what i am on at the moment to induce af as today is CD114, I have pcos aswell.

I am sorry you are feeling down, but please know that you are not alone.

 

[bumblebeettc1]

Don't give up!!! I'm sorry you're having such a hard time.

A friend of mine had pcos and a natural healthy triplet pregnancy!!

Sometimes Oh's don't feel the same as us women and probably feel helpless and frustrated.

Maybe you can just try regular BD every 2 or 3 days and avoid all ovulation tests or symptom spotting?

A more relaxed but consistent approach!

Hope that helps. Fingers crossed. Xxx

 

[aquaria6]

I'm sorry you are having such a hard time. I think we all have our moments of wanting to give up. When I start to feel the tears about to flow, I think about something my granmother always said, "You may as well laugh than cry." I've been thinking about that a lot lately. I hope you can find some peace soon.

 

[wannabemummyb]

They have put me on metformin and referred me to fs. Will make an appointment and mention provera, thanks

 

[wannabemummyb]

Thanks ladies. Normally I am quite strong with it all but it just got to me today, I think because af started to become more regular but obviously not.

 

[Lily7]

They have put me on metformin and referred me to fs. Will make an appointment and mention provera, thanks

I hope you get it, it took me ages to get it, well 114 days to be precise! lol

And don't worry about your oh, men are men, plain and simple they are not like us girlies! If you need a chat just come on here, thats what we are all here for - to help each other through