JellyBeann
Son, Daughter, 2 Angels
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Hi guys, first off, I am really worried DH may have gender disappointment with baby if it's a girl...He is CONVINCED baby is a boy! I don't think he won't love the baby...I just think he'll have a hard time bonding at first!
And now me...I think I'll have it if baby is a boy, in my head this baby is a girl, and there is no chance that baby is a boy, at all!! I always thought I wanted boys, and I'd be this way if baby was a girl, but I honestly think I'm going to be the other way around. I feel so horrible for even thinking about not loving baby as much as I should, as I really don't think I've bonded with baby as much as I had with my son. We were team yellow with my son too, but I bonded with him no problem in the womb. I don't know about this baby, I'm just not looking forward to the birth as much, as I don't want to be disappointed with the gender!
I hope that made sense, I'm really rambling!
And now me...I think I'll have it if baby is a boy, in my head this baby is a girl, and there is no chance that baby is a boy, at all!! I always thought I wanted boys, and I'd be this way if baby was a girl, but I honestly think I'm going to be the other way around. I feel so horrible for even thinking about not loving baby as much as I should, as I really don't think I've bonded with baby as much as I had with my son. We were team yellow with my son too, but I bonded with him no problem in the womb. I don't know about this baby, I'm just not looking forward to the birth as much, as I don't want to be disappointed with the gender!
I hope that made sense, I'm really rambling!