b4baby
Mommy to DD and DS
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So I had my 20 week scan yesterday and the whole was through she was talking about the baby saying 'this is his...' or he this and that but then at the end said from what I have seen it looks like a little girl.
To say I was gutted was a understatment. I really wanted a boy more than anything and a girl was just not in my plan! But now everyone around me keeps going on about how wonderful it is to have a girl but I just really don't feel it. Don't get me wrong I know I will love her more than anything and I am very happy she is healthy.
So now I feel really guilty I am sad she is a girl and don't know what to do. Has anyone else felt like this? How long does it last for? Any advice?
Bx
To say I was gutted was a understatment. I really wanted a boy more than anything and a girl was just not in my plan! But now everyone around me keeps going on about how wonderful it is to have a girl but I just really don't feel it. Don't get me wrong I know I will love her more than anything and I am very happy she is healthy.
So now I feel really guilty I am sad she is a girl and don't know what to do. Has anyone else felt like this? How long does it last for? Any advice?
Bx