Armywife
Mummy to 2 beauties
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Hi ladies,
I have 2 beautiful, perfect, clever, funny little girls who I wouldn't change for the world. When I was pregnant with my eldest I prayed for a girl, when I was pregnant with my second I again hoped for a girl. Our original plans were to have 4 or 5 children but due to my medical issues this will be our last baby.
I am now DESPERATE for a boy, I want to cry every time I see friends who have boys. I really feel like I need to be a mummy to a boy. On top of that I've got people left, right and centre asking me if I'm hoping for a boy and just adding to the pressure. If I were to have another girl I will be happy and of course I will love her with my whole heart, I'm just so desperate for a boy.
I feel beyond guilty for feeling this way - surely as a mum I should just be hoping for a healthy baby (which of course I am), gender shouldn't matter?
I have 2 beautiful, perfect, clever, funny little girls who I wouldn't change for the world. When I was pregnant with my eldest I prayed for a girl, when I was pregnant with my second I again hoped for a girl. Our original plans were to have 4 or 5 children but due to my medical issues this will be our last baby.
I am now DESPERATE for a boy, I want to cry every time I see friends who have boys. I really feel like I need to be a mummy to a boy. On top of that I've got people left, right and centre asking me if I'm hoping for a boy and just adding to the pressure. If I were to have another girl I will be happy and of course I will love her with my whole heart, I'm just so desperate for a boy.
I feel beyond guilty for feeling this way - surely as a mum I should just be hoping for a healthy baby (which of course I am), gender shouldn't matter?