Feeling like a failure as a woman?

[Pixie0723]

I'm so sorry hun, i know exactly how you feel. I hope u get your BFP really soon

 

[genkigemini]

I truly have felt just as you do.

 

[MissAma]

*Sigh* I shouldn't have read this after reading CurlySue's "come and go bus" analogy now I'm bawling at work.

I'm sure you're feeling better already, you're a strong woman who will make an amazing mother one day sooner than you think.

All my love.

 

[NeyNey]

^You're such a sweetheart.

Thanks girls.
I am feeling better now. In fact I'm gathering inspiration from her BFP. I guess I'm taking it as atleast our whole family doesn't have screwed up reproductive organs. And when I think about it, I'm glad it was successful her first time as I would never want her to have to go through what I'm going through. That would be my very last wish for her.

And now I am kind of excited about becoming an Aunty for the first time.

 

[Mynxie]

sat there reading that crying hun, cause that's part of the reason that I'm so upset about stuff today, - that I feel like such a failiure! And the family thing I totally relate to, my parents had 2 children, my brother will probably never have an adult relationship so he'll never be a father, if there's any grandchildren, they'll be from me....and they've had something put away for their first grandchild from me, since I was 2 years old...knowing that hurts.

You're going to be a fantastic aunt and I'm really glad that your sister told you herself the way that she did, because it could have hurt alot more done differently. You have a sister who loves you very much and your niece or nephew is gonna have a fantastic aunt who will spoil him or her rotten.

 

[scotsgirlie]

I know how you feel babes it really sucks!! I don't have the issue of a baby sister but have some very close friends who are now pregnant or have just had babies - and some of them weren't even trying. I have had bouts where I haven't wanted to be around them or couldn't for fear of crying. DH and I are about to start IUI so fingers crossed after 3 long years we will finally get the baby we want. you too xxx

 

[hopeful4baby]

Grief is not a linear thing and situations and things around makes it bounce back again and again.

I've got a niece now too, through my DH. We were so pleased, because my SIL isn't getting younger and we were worried for them as much as for us. But she when she got pregnant, unlike us she stayed pregnant..and I was soooo jealous!! And hoped so much I'll be shortly after her. No such luck!
My niece is a little 8wks old sweetie, centre of the family now, my MIL can't talk about anything else. I do like being an auntie, especially the favourite one, but it doesn't substitute the fact that we don't have our own..

And the waiting simply sucks!!! And we all know the "frustration, anger, anxiety etc"..

LOTS OF HUGS and prayers our waiting time is soon over!!!!