justwaiting
Mummy to Owen
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I have been feeling under so much pressure after our loss back in Nov.Pressure from myself, family and friends. I feel the pressure to get pregnant again so I can prove to people that my mc was a once off and that I can fall pregnant again and hopefully as quickly as the first time. It took a total of 6 weeks to get a bfp last time from when we started trying. I know I was lucky then.
I convince and unconvince myself I'm pregnant everyday, last time I just had a feeling that I was but I didn't know any different this time I have felt it before so not sure if it my mind making me think I am or my body.
I feel that if I fall pregnant again soon then people will stop worrying about me, asking whether I'm trying again or just simply if I'm ok. It sounds horrible but I wish they'd stop asking me if I'm ok, especially Dh. I've started hiding my pg books from him and reading them in secret and going on here and hiding it from him. My cousin also is 17wks pg and I was 3 weeksa ahead of her and she avoids saying too much around me incase she upsets me (it does but I want to know too)
I know it's probably normal to feel pressure after loss, has anyone else felt the same? How do I cope with the pressure and not let it effect my chances of getting pg, as I've heard stress can stop you falling pg?
I convince and unconvince myself I'm pregnant everyday, last time I just had a feeling that I was but I didn't know any different this time I have felt it before so not sure if it my mind making me think I am or my body.
I feel that if I fall pregnant again soon then people will stop worrying about me, asking whether I'm trying again or just simply if I'm ok. It sounds horrible but I wish they'd stop asking me if I'm ok, especially Dh. I've started hiding my pg books from him and reading them in secret and going on here and hiding it from him. My cousin also is 17wks pg and I was 3 weeksa ahead of her and she avoids saying too much around me incase she upsets me (it does but I want to know too)
I know it's probably normal to feel pressure after loss, has anyone else felt the same? How do I cope with the pressure and not let it effect my chances of getting pg, as I've heard stress can stop you falling pg?