We had our funeral/memorial for our little baby Jesse yesterday. It was a really difficult day but it gave both of us hope. The person who did the service was great. It was a mixture of Religious and Humanist. There were a couple of things I felt like I should share on here. He talked about how important Jesse is and how it doesn't matter how long a baby is on the earth or whether it was in mummy's tummy or arms, the impression babies have is forever. He went on to explain that Jesse is will be looking out for us and other babies and giving us strength when we need it no matter what belief system we have. He said that we should think of our special baby in whichever way gives us comfort be that as a star, an angel, a shining light or playing with other babies that didn't leave the safety of mummy's tummies and babies that left the earth or even all of them and more. I hadn't really thought about my baby playing with others until then as I had been focusing on our loss and us not being able to see our baby play with others and not being able to experience things with Jesse. There have been so many women on here that have helped me and have been through so much and it gives me such comfort to know that my baby might be playing with the babies of women on here! I think my little is a lucky baby to have friends that have such amazing parents . THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!!!!