I went through this two months ago, and at my appointment (the first month) they will do a internal and external ultrasound on cycle day 3, they will do a pap test, blood work on both of you, ask you a lot of questions, and get you to fill out a lot of forms, they will then want you to come back at cycle day 10 and 12 (and if you haven't ovulated tehy will have you come back each day to monitor your ovaries via internal ultrasound until they see that you have ovulated.) They also do blood work each and everytime you are there for the ultrasounds and you will feel like a pin cushion at the end of it all. They will screen you for stds and also do a sperm test. If there's any issues there they might do a scrotal ultrasound on your hubby. Then when that is all finished they will sit you down and give you options as to where to go. The second month was similar with monitoring of the cycle via blood work and ultraounds but I found I was there much less. It all depends if your fertility specialist does cycle monitoring. hoping for you both!