genkigemini
Jack-Jack's Mommy
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Hi everyone, I copied this from my journal but I just wanted to let you all know what is going on in my TTC journey right now.
Jack and I have really changed our goals for TTC and here it goes.
I am done with Assisted Conception. No more drugs, no more pills, no Jan Clomid round and no saving for IVF right now. 2008 has been a series of counting days and pill taking so much so that we were not able to enjoy it and were totally unprepared for the holidays or anything else this year either. We do not want to do this again.
So, we are planning to move out of AK in 2010 to somewhere. (Probably either Northern CA or PA but at this point it does not matter. We are just moving back to America.) Then we are going to travel to Japan which is something that we have always wanted to do. Then we will readdress what we really want to do as far as IVF goes.
This is not to say that we are not TTC because we are not going to stop trying the natural way but 10 years is enough. No more counting/worrying/stressing. We are just going to be happily married again. If kids are not in the future... well... that is fine. I just can't and won't do this stuff anymore and DH is in the same boat.
I am not leaving BnB or anything but I probably will not be around as much. If anyone wants my cell phone or home number to keep in touch, I would love that. I love you all and I still plan to be active in BnB but we are just going to chill.
This is a decision that I am totally at peace about. It was my idea but Jack has been thinking this way for a while before I said anything so it works out well. I hope you guys understand.
Jack and I have really changed our goals for TTC and here it goes.
I am done with Assisted Conception. No more drugs, no more pills, no Jan Clomid round and no saving for IVF right now. 2008 has been a series of counting days and pill taking so much so that we were not able to enjoy it and were totally unprepared for the holidays or anything else this year either. We do not want to do this again.
So, we are planning to move out of AK in 2010 to somewhere. (Probably either Northern CA or PA but at this point it does not matter. We are just moving back to America.) Then we are going to travel to Japan which is something that we have always wanted to do. Then we will readdress what we really want to do as far as IVF goes.
This is not to say that we are not TTC because we are not going to stop trying the natural way but 10 years is enough. No more counting/worrying/stressing. We are just going to be happily married again. If kids are not in the future... well... that is fine. I just can't and won't do this stuff anymore and DH is in the same boat.
I am not leaving BnB or anything but I probably will not be around as much. If anyone wants my cell phone or home number to keep in touch, I would love that. I love you all and I still plan to be active in BnB but we are just going to chill.
This is a decision that I am totally at peace about. It was my idea but Jack has been thinking this way for a while before I said anything so it works out well. I hope you guys understand.
