MrsHart2b
Mummy to Oliver & due 2nd
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hey girlies, we have our 20 week scan booked in for 4th feb, so have a while to decided wether were going to find out the sex or not, trouble is, me and my family don't want to kno but oh and his family do, I kno that its not our familys choice but when I mention it my family back me up saying we shouldn't find out, in a nice jokey way! my oh seems to be backing down but he said yest "we won't find out cos I will just never hear the end of it" I feel really sorry for him now and it is like we are bullying him a bit ooops so I'm feeling really really guilty but I still don't want to kno, my arguement is that it will ruin my surprise but if he doesn't find out then his wait to find out won't be too bad but I'll be upset I didn't have a surprise! is anyone else in same situ or been in same situ and how did u resolve it? thanks ladies!x