First fertility appointment

[sammy1987xxx]

My oh was slow at getting his appt cos he was scared but now it's over he's a rock.
He gets frustrated occasionally cos of my irregular cycles and having to keep bd for long periods but so far he's been good at keeping up with demand.
Think he sees how much I'm trying to get pregnant so he's trying too.
It's not the nicest of things for our oh to do so bare in mind there scared that they will be told they will not be able to have children just as much as we r.
He works with a woman who's partner has been told he has no sperm and that they are going to try and wash it and rescue any if there is any to rescue think that made him realise it happens to everyone just normal people xxx

 

[pcsoph2890]

Yeah, my hubby doesn't want anyone to know what we are going through, but a few of my close friends know and sister and mother - I cannot do this alone with only hubby knowing. but then he is the type who doesn't show his emotions, but becomes ill when he bottles things up!
So he doesn't know anyone personally that I know of who is going through the same.

when talking to my mum today she said that she got pregnant straight away with my sister, then 3 months after she gave birth she was pregnant with me. my sister is a fertile egg producer (call her and her husband super egg and sperm)!!! So kinda makes this a bit more gutting.... but hey ho can't do anything at all about it - trouble is his appt is on Tuesday, I'm now entering the fertile period, so gonna try to bd tonight then nothing til Tuesday night then will try to seduce him again then! couldn't have come at a worst time!!!

But hopefully after this I can get cracking whY what needs to be done with me and move things along a bit more as it'll be all about me!!!

 

[awifey]

Yeah, my hubby doesn't want anyone to know what we are going through, but a few of my close friends know and sister and mother - I cannot do this alone with only hubby knowing. but then he is the type who doesn't show his emotions, but becomes ill when he bottles things up!
So he doesn't know anyone personally that I know of who is going through the same.

when talking to my mum today she said that she got pregnant straight away with my sister, then 3 months after she gave birth she was pregnant with me. my sister is a fertile egg producer (call her and her husband super egg and sperm)!!! So kinda makes this a bit more gutting.... but hey ho can't do anything at all about it - trouble is his appt is on Tuesday, I'm now entering the fertile period, so gonna try to bd tonight then nothing til Tuesday night then will try to seduce him again then! couldn't have come at a worst time!!!

But hopefully after this I can get cracking whY what needs to be done with me and move things along a bit more as it'll be all about me!!!

My mom had it the same...easy! No clue on the sis, she is not in a relationship and plans on never having kids (we'll see).

Sucks those two important things are at the same time! I told dh he had to wait two days and now it is being really hard to get him to keep his hands to himself!

 

[pcsoph2890]

well just getting big clumps of ewcm. opk argumentative I hope it stays negative until tomorrow night, after hubby has given his sample.
but my blobs already quite tender this month and not yet ovulated!

strange!!!!

 

[sammy1987xxx]

My opk turned negative today after two days of positive. Bd wed fri sun and today so fingers crossed.
What day r u on? Hope oh is more up for it this month x

 

[mizza1987]

I had my ultrasound yesterday but they said I had cysts all over both ovaries :0( lots of tears yesterday afternoon but feeling better today - I have a problem for which there will be a solution :0) 12dpo today :0) not testing until AF actually late! X

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Aw I'm sorry. They will be able to treat u and help u fingers crossed for bfp. Is ur LP 14? X

 

[awifey]

Dh's SA 0 sperm cells. Am down and out.

 

[sammy1987xxx]

0? None at all? xx

 

[awifey]

0? None at all? xx

Not one was found.

He will quit smoking and cut down on drinking to see if that helps at all, so in three months will check again, but zero bodes poorly for anything.

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Is he taking zinc? Will u both consider a sperm donor. Atleast u have a explanation I guess x

 

[mizza1987]

awifey i'm sorry to hear that. sometimes though they make the sperm and then there's a blockage and they can't be released and if this is the case, then can take sperm directly from the testicles and use ICSI. my friend is currently undergoing this with her husband.

My LP is 14 days post the first peak on my CBFM. I have been naughty and tested and there are two lines but i'm not yet believing it!!

 

[awifey]

Is he taking zinc? Will u both consider a sperm donor. Atleast u have a explanation I guess x

I just started him on vitamins since hearing the news. Too early to discuss other options than quitting smoking and reducing drinking.

I have no clue how he'd feel about donor, like I said, we just found out and are in shock.

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Mizza iv just been looking up chances of preg after hsg and its quite common!! I so hope u r!! Will give my inspiration!!
Awifey I hope what mizza sed is a option xx

 

[sammy1987xxx]

What test did u use mizza xx

 

[mizza1987]

Frer. X

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Pink dye? X

 

[mizza1987]

https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/pregnancy-tests/1708269-ic-day-12-post-cbfm-peak.html

both an IC and the FRER are pink xx

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Omg that fr is def positive I'm so happy for u.
Congrats. Praying for a sticky one for u.
Xxx

 

[sammy1987xxx]

How long have u been trying now? I def think the hsg helps. I hope it helps me too xx