First fertility appointment

[mizza1987]

thankyou :0) 18 months now. i'm still not believing it. waiting for hubby to get home and am pacing up and down!! i thought we were out this month because the peak on my cbfm came 3 days after the hsg and we hadn't had sex from the day before the period came and then until the peak. reckon maybe we had too much sex!! xx

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Any symptoms? X

 

[mizza1987]

none at all. just a bit bloated. that's whats creeping me out at the moment. i'm so scared. xx

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Iv got my fingers crossed for u xx

 

[lilyV]

awifey - I'm so sorry about your dh's sa results

mizza1987 - congrats hon

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Have u done another test today x

 

[awifey]

Still got blood draws...had to do day to instead of three as I can't get there in time tomorrow.

 

[sammy1987xxx]

My FS sed that two is fine too. Good luck xx

 

[pcsoph2890]

Awifey - so sorry to hear the news, but as Sammy said there is hope yet, and it does only take one (yes i hate that phrase, but it is true) Give it time to sink in - keep going with the tests on you so you have a whole picture of the scenerio.
Mizza - so happy for you! I'm one month behind you, so fingers crossed.

Although i have strange symptoms this month. I have just O according to OPK and CM. But i have already quite sore boobs - strange as usually get them a week before AF or after O, never before!
AF was quite strong this month, so it wasn't as if it was just a show, or spotting.... Great that i'm going to have to go another two weeks with sore boobs, that will only get worse!

 

[sammy1987xxx]

I have just ovulated to 2-3dpo so can wait it out together.
Boo to the sore boobs already. My temps think I'm 2 dpo but I think I'm three. Just hoping the hsg works for me too. Any updates with ur tests pcsoph xx

 

[mizza1987]

i did another test this morning and it was darker, been out today to get a ''test with words'' for tomorrow morning. got everything crossed for you lovely ladies xx

 

[pcsoph2890]

Sammy - nothing yet - hubby did his SA on the 29th, so probbaly be next week when we get the results. Have to attend in person to get them and discuss what is next.

My body just seems so out of sync this month.

watery cm days 6/7
ewcm days 8/9/10/11
positive opk day 10 (still getting ewcm and on day 12 now - possible two days after O)

My boobs have been tender since about day 6!

We bedded on day 10, when OPK showed positive, as couldn't bd any earlier as he had to abstain for 3 days before his sample, so was hoping we gave it a good chance this month... Might try again tonight as still getting ewcm today... but opk shows negative. But already think hubby will say he is too tired as he was up at 6am to go swimming and at work til 10pm!

Think that night will be the best go this month!

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Is this it's second sa?
His swimmers could still be alive even if u haven't ovulated yet. I normally ovulate the last day of ewcm.
Hope the tww goes fast for both of us. Xx

 

[sammy1987xxx]

iPhone changed oh to it meant ohs sa xx

 

[pcsoph2890]

yes second sample - this time it is being washed to see how many viable swimmers he has after all the dross has been removed.

The first count was 10.98 million per sample. If less than 10m after the wash it'll have to be IVF, so i'd imagine that it'll be that route, rather than iui.

Re O - i haven't done OPK's for a few months now as i felt upset if hubby was too tired/at work and we didn't dtd. Neither do i temp anymore, as got annoyed with all the conflicting results, no baseline, OPK positive and ewcm present, so thought it was a bit misleading. Just rely on ewcm now.
I'll try to seduce hubby again tonight and see what happens as still having ewcm today.

It's just the boobs that are wierd this month. Past few months no sore boobs and af just appeared with no spotting as a lead up - so quite bizarre that they have started early - was thinking i had O mega early, but body signs say otherwise and OPk as well! I O quite early anyway usually day 10-11-12. But my total cycle length is between 24-26 days, pretty much bang on each month. LP is the same each month 13 days.... so pretty regular each month without fail.

Oh well now in the TWW now, so long wait now! Fingers crossed as Mizza got caught in her 18th month we might be lucky i'm in my 17th Month TTC now.... those little swimmers and egg ahve to meet up soon surely!

 

[sammy1987xxx]

Lets hope the witch is a no show for us
I'm hoping the hsg helps as with mizza.
I can't even imagine a bfp anymore it's been such a long time since iv been hopeful.
It's on my mind everyday at the moment. Don't know what to do to pass the time.
I think u should try tonight if u can then u have covered it just incase. But how weird about the boobs.
When's ur next appt? Mines a life time away.
I need to get used to waiting as funding is a waiting game.
Xx

 

[pcsoph2890]

Ha same with me the thought of having children just seems so remote now, and harder to imagine now.
But yes it's on my mind all the time - esp where i work too, i see som many children/babies being mistreated and the awful parents who are THE MOST fertile people even when they drink, take drugs etc... very frustrating!

 

[sammy1987xxx]

oh no. Would love that job tho.
Sick of watching Jeremy Kyle and all the children who have children!! So frustrating xx

 

[pcsoph2890]

Mmmm the people on JK is who i deal with day in and out! Can't watch it as it's like being at work all the time!

 

[pcsoph2890]

Read up on the boob issue - and apprently it is sign you are about to ovulate.
So signs good this month that i did O.
But didn;t manage to dtd again as he was "too tired", so only managed it once this fertile period - so yet again not holding out any hope this month that that once worked!
So now got the tww to get through.
Hopefully the sa results will come through so we see whether they are better/worse/the same as last time.